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Good ol' southern Baptist girl, but with crates of SPICE, optimist (always a silver lining),joyful, organized, planner, snuggler, sentimental (I keep EVERYTHING). I'm always on the go (the laundry can wait...besides I have a live-in housekeeper...use to have two when married, oh well, some things have changed a little), I like new adventures, challenges, and experiences (I've been almost everywhere, even deep in the Amazon jungles and "swam" with the piranhas, actually it was our bathing time and I was in and out FAST hoping they were feeding down the river somewhere. I jumped out of a plane-ONCE). I like to stay up late...friends know, I am always a good buddy for a last minute late night movie or go get midnight munchies. I have the BEST sense of humor and can take a laugh at my expense...will laugh along too. I get along great with everyone especially men. My ex lives around the corner from me-no problems. My best friend is a guy who is an attorney - must be the sports thing. I love to go to sports events, will watch baseball on T.V., that is, however; when the NHL Dallas Stars are not playing. My son and I have season seats. I am NOT a DITZY BLONDE...I have a good head on my shoulders - am very solid founded. I've organized and taken charge of many large business transactions before. I do not work now. I think things out...actually I am a thinker and a planner...by far not a dumb blonde (I do like blonde jokes). I don't do the singles bar scenes...OK, well until recently, here is the story; I had NEVER heard the term "lap dance" so I asked a friend to take me to a "wild bar" in Las Vegas so I could see... LOL...I realized then just HOW MUCH of a glass dome I HAVE lived in all my life...I had to see for myself...LOL Wow! There IS a different world out there than I have ever known. Actually, I thought it was kinda fun) All and all I have decided as the song goes, "My NEXT 40 years are gonna be different". My friends think I have it all together. I can relate my OUTWARD life to the comedy movie "Seems Like Old Times". How Goldie Hawn handles a million things while going in a thousand different directions all at the same time. But, even still, she stops to care for someone else, a dog, or even her ex, yet all awhile keeping up a calm, CLASSY, under control outward appearance. She does it all with a sense of humor (oh this is soooo me). I always laugh until I cry when watching that movie thinking how much I relate to her character. Friends wonder how I do it all and sometimes I do too. I relate my INWARD life to the Kenny Rogers song, oh how does it go? Something like, "She's always a lady ..." then the BEST part, "Cause no one knows what goes on behind closed doors". WOW! I just love it. WARNING: I am a fun and passionate romanticist and this is where so called "spice" plays a big part. I am a monogamist, attracted to men with power (my ex is very powerful and I respect him a great deal for his accomplishments. He is also a great dad). I am very healthy and stable and I would want someone who is healthy in mind, spirit, physically, emotionally, and finically as well. I am very very picky. By the way, I do NOT kiss on the first date. I will kiss when I WANT TO and it WILL be great. Oh and there is one more issue ... I expect to walk on the inside of the curb, door to be opened for, and please KNOW to eat your soup from the OUTSIDE of the bowl or at least be willing to learn. There are many different looks...I am the CLASSY date you want to take to YOUR COMPANY party who will knock em dead, heads turn...yes I know straight hair is in, bangs and fluff are out...I am more like "Friends" long, straighter hair, and NO BANGS. I am not afraid to wear leather, after all it IS in style. No one is ever embarrised by what I wear. Well, if you made it THIS far in this novel...I am flattered and speechless ("Speechless?" Did I say that?)... You deserve bonis information: I have an awsome sexual drive and love being with "my man&