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I have been self employed since I was 23. I am very ambitious and have owned 4 companies in my time. I have owned a limousine company and a process serving company. Prior to that, I was a private detective for about 10 years. I did more than just the cheating spouse thing like most others PI's. During my time as a private detective, I saved a man's life on 2.20.00 and was fortunate enough to have located 3 missing and exploited children and returned them home safely. These are some major accomplishments that I am proud of and are profound to me. I also owned part of a resturant in Orland Park. I have had many great experiences in my life, but I have yet to experience the greatest one of all...finding my true soulmate. I am at a point of my life that I want to do this and eventually settle down with the right one and have a family one day. I am not a serial dater and not like most men online that send out hundreds of emails to different women hoping to get several replies back. I am very selective on who I choose to view their profile and read everything (not just look at the pictures). It is because of game playing men that makes it difficult for good and sincere men like me to meet women that don't have all the walls up. Ladies, on behalf of my gender, I apologize for all the jerks you may have run into in the past. I hope you have not given up hope that there are a few of us good ones out there wanting nothing more than what you truely seek. My perfect match is a woman that is genuine. I think genuine people are hard to find and rare nowadays. I am drawn to a woman that knows what she wants and is not affraid to go after it. One that is family orientated. A woman that wants a man that will respect her and her thoughts and not only want to be treated like a queen, but also want to treat her man in the same manner. I am the type of person that truely puts 110% into a relationship. I am drawn to a complex woman who is both compassionate and confident, wise and also genuine. I am candid, bold, intelligent and educated...but I am also a genuine, romantic and sincere man that is a good catch looking for the same in a woman.