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Hi, I'm John; thanks for stopping in, I appreciate it. I'M PRESENTLY NEW MEMBER, so please feel free to write if the spirit prompts you. I'm a Luver of creativity, beauty, and harmony in ALL forms. I don't play silly immature games with human emotion; I've learned, through many failures and heartaches, what life is truly about: THE TRUE WAY TO LIVE IS TO GIVE! And I feel the way we speak to others is how we feel about ourself. Love Me Like Music And I'll Be Your Song I found FAR more joy outside. I know what I want in life; I'm not arrogant, but I AM very confident, and not afraid. To me, failure is NOT trying. I give my all to those I Luv and I want an ETERNAL LUV who can appreciate romance and KNOW what true Luv is all about. "The Deeper The Love, The Stronger The Emotion. And The Stronger The Love, The Deeper The Devotion." I've worked very hard and sacrificed a lot to get where I am; however, money DOES NOT motivate me; I'm not materialistic, but I AM realistic; I DO know what kind of life it can provide my family and I'm a firm believer that unless YOU control your money, your money will control you.Am Self Employed, My work ethic is strong, however it's what I DO, NOT who I am. I believe in angels and trust in miracles; and with the right attitude, we'll see and experience BOTH throughout our lives. I believe in a universal law of "Reciprocity:" Everything in life turns full circle; sometimes that circle is small, sometimes large; but in the end, we'll receive in return what we give. "In all of living, have much fun and laughter; Life is to be ENJOYED, not just endured." I LUV being in nature and enjoying its wondrous beauty; the mountains are my favorite destination. I Luv visiting the beautiful and picturesque Appalachian mountains of eastern Kentucky, southwest Virginia, and the absolutely GORGEOUS Blue Ridge and Great Smokey Mountains in and around Asheville, North Carolina where white water excursions are ALWAYS fun and the waterfalls are SPECTACULAR. I'm someone who's not afraid to laugh at himself and I'm very "down to earth." I keep things in perspective and always try to look at the "big picture;" even tempered; never too high, never too low. I've been told I have "rubber shoulders;" I accept reality and I deal with it, never "sugar-coating" the negative, but always finding the silver-lining. I can be as soft as a kitten or as SOLID AS A ROCK, depending on the need of the circumstance(s). "When the pain of love surrounds you, And the world may be unkind; I'll (wrap) my loving arms around you, And take you far from this place and time." I try and find the goodness in everything and everyone; life's too short to be mad or unhappy: I move forward, stay productive, and have as much fun as I can doing it. I work VERY hard and I play EVEN harder, hopefully soon with the right WOMAN beside me. With the right woman, just about ANYTHING is fun; especially listening to your beautiful and discerning mind and proving that I can satisfy you; I've never been into "male bonding;" I'd MUCH rather be staring into your beautiful eyes and have a BETTER understanding of how and why this wonderful universe began. "Women are made to be LOVED, not understood." I wanna tell you, every day, just how BEAUTIFUL, UNIQUE, and SPECIAL you are to me. I wanna hear YOUR thoughts, hopes and dreams, and if I can, help you achieve them; it's not about just ME. If you'd like to know more of who I am and what I'm about, please feel free to ask; I'm looking forward to knowing you as well. "True love is not so much a matter of romance as it is a matter of anxious concern for the well-being of one's companion.