luvinyoufun (this topic's creator)5/11/2007 6:10:58 AM
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Twice_baked_taders 5/12/2007 1:54:30 AM
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You sure you want an honest man? They tell you the truth you know.
Rob296 5/13/2007 12:22:23 AM
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I keep hearing about women wanting the nice (or honest) guy, but when they find one, they seem to want to go back to the bad boy. Or is it just me?
mariag 5/29/2007 5:10:27 AM
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Maybe you are not as good as you think you are ;-)
shaelyn283 6/12/2007 7:08:45 AM
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i am here, whats up
shaelyn283 6/12/2007 7:12:43 AM
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i guess no one talks here
JeepHammer 6/19/2007 5:38:43 PM
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What if you run into the honest 'bad boy'...
guamgalincali 7/2/2007 12:46:05 PM
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Not with that BIG headphone ya got coverin' your ears, shael..lol..try the general boards...people talk a lot in there. :-D This time though, leave the headset.. **wink!**,,,lol
george9 8/1/2007 9:58:39 PM
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Im an honest man, never cheated on any woman, or even dated more than one at a time. my wife , was the dishonest one. She cheated on me and lied to me all the time. i', ready for an honest woman.
warriormagic1 8/2/2007 5:45:30 AM
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honesty is over-rated, being real is better and more fun
honesty means lying to you and saying you are thin when your ass is fat or telling you are pretty when you are fugly do you really want an honest man ?
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george9 8/5/2007 8:36:37 PM
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your the kind of guy that gives men a bad rap. grow up
lovesweet2 9/5/2007 5:48:17 AM
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love to chat with you in yahoo chat box, meet through greenlandsweetnature
lovesweet2 9/5/2007 5:50:44 AM
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email me through greenlandsweetnature@yahoo.co.uk so that we can talk about this better. and i love to know you better.
ateamofone 10/6/2007 8:23:49 AM
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Theres lots of honest guys out there. The problem is that you have to get to know someone to truly find out if hes honest and if hes not, then you try again, and again.....a long drawn out process. It could take years! Also people define honesty differently, for examples.. what if you found something in your shopping cart you didnt pay for? is her butt really fat? did the cashier undercharge you? do you really love me? .... Myself, i preferre total open and honesty. Good luck
tck_beachbum 10/6/2007 8:43:57 AM
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Is that honestly her pic in the opening post?
LOL
TOXXXIC 10/13/2007 2:39:51 PM
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honesty is like sarcasm without the wit.
sarcasm is telling people how you REALLY feel.
the difference is the ability to be an ass and still get your point across...........i am a wise-ass........get to know me.
example
question........does my butt look big in these jeans???
answer..........not big enough for my liking
JoJet 10/17/2007 5:34:30 PM
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^^ What TCK said...(profile states she is caucasian?????)
RyVerse 10/17/2007 6:12:05 PM
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Honest men have trouble deciphering between these bots and real people.
stinkeasereturn 10/17/2007 7:15:00 PM
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Hahahaha! Yeah RyVerse.
njlights 11/15/2007 8:24:46 PM
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There is a difference between Honesty and Brutal Honesty. If I my butt is big, and I ask, tell me Yes, but you still like it, or its ok, or I have other qualities that you like that make you want to be with me, after all no one is perfect. If it's not OK with you that my butt is big, than why are you with me?
icedsnow 1/23/2008 8:25:10 PM
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DO THEY STILL MAKE HONEST MEN....OR DO THEIR EX-WIVES MAKE THEM DISHONEST ???
icedsnow 1/23/2008 8:27:35 PM
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DO THEY STILL MAKE HONEST MEN....OR DO THEIR EX-WIVES MAKE THEM DISHONEST ???
biffled 1/23/2008 8:46:49 PM
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Usually, ex-wives (or mine at least) make us crazy, but if a guy was honest before marriage, he's usually honest after marriage also.
philipwise 1/30/2008 7:26:38 AM
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If you need an honest man then I would suggest you for one free dating site called vertigosex.com I also got many hot gals from there. There are lots of boys waiting for you. So lets enjoy the fun.
Cheers!
yummie247 1/30/2008 7:42:47 AM
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Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm, The first question is are you honest? If yes, then i believe what goes around comes around. You will definitely find one and you just did. Me
easyman 2/1/2008 7:12:58 AM
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There must be a lot of honest man here to balance the fact that there are a lot of honest girls here. I only wonder why those girls all moved to Ghana and Nigeria while waiting for the right honest man and why they all use such strange grammar while claiming having an university degree?
BTW why is there no filter to delete all accounts that refer to ve.....com
bunkieboo 2/16/2008 2:58:35 PM
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I'm with NJlights, "If you don't like my big butt, why are you with me?"
Easyman, I don't know about deleting those accounts. I am sure a lot of the dating sites pay to advertise here on mingles, that's how mr mingles makes it free to members, and it's not fair that these guys get free advertising. I'm thinking of reporting the profiles as I stumble onto them, then Mr Mingles can take care of them.
starryeyed_1 3/29/2008 10:40:39 PM
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Oh they are here, but they seem to be heading for the endangered species list, along with the honest women. You just have to spray on the roundup quack killer, wait a few days and see what's left.
ArtyWordsmith 5/30/2008 4:09:36 PM
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Honesty or Dishonesty? Just remember, the TRUTH always finds us in the end. Delay or be truthful today.....hold on.....let me think!
burnsidesideburns 5/30/2008 4:38:25 PM
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Honesty killed the cat. Or was that something else, well the cat was curios and then he was honest about it and thats what got him killed. So yes honesty killed the cat.
guamgalincali 7/2/2008 3:18:57 AM
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"No man [or woman for that matter] has a good enough memory to make a successful liar." Abraham Lincoln
Hey, he said it..I just added the 'woman' and then quoted it...LOL
"Pretty much all the honest truth telling in the world is done by children." Oliver Wendell
And even THEY Lie when they are afraid to tell the truth!...lol..actually, kids just say the darndest things now, don't they??? ...LOL..
cwbyhouse 7/10/2008 2:34:50 PM
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WIFE GONE TO WORK...WHERES THE PARTY....LOL
mutleyblue 8/6/2008 1:33:27 PM
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I am a honest man,both my wifes cheated on me,so who r the dishonest ones now !Still trying 2 met a honest woman,what a task anyone help lol
Papajim 8/10/2008 2:00:45 PM
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I am a very honest person. That's why I am single. No, Honestly. lol

Lance_a_lot 8/10/2008 2:49:53 PM
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geez... seems to be plenty of honest men around...
is there a counter thread where i can find honest women?
needagoodwomaninmobile 8/14/2008 5:26:26 PM
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Glad im a rock star!
tndrhart2000 8/24/2008 1:10:03 AM
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i believe in total honesty ,and i firmly believe it's not what you say as much as how you say it . i can handle any comment as long as there not ment in a rude or beligerant way .so yes honesty is best and most of the time people try to be honest and we know it but we think if we don't pay attention to what right in front of us it might go away .i firmly believe it's all in us and our body tells us what we need to know .if i get anxyous when i am talking to someone i know its not right ..so listen with your head and respond with your heart .kindness never hurt anyone
TONY6969 9/2/2008 2:09:01 PM
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i'm new here as a gold member just thought i drop a line saying hi to all if you care to drop me a coment on myspace its www.myspace.com/tony_196464 i'm single and from ripon wi with 4 kids 2 are over 21 the 2 little ones live with there mother so please dont be shy i dont bite unless you ask me too lol j/k
fail 11/25/2008 9:08:36 PM
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Hey,, I am getting used to finishing last
michael20051234 11/28/2008 11:39:18 AM
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What is honesty? How does one know when another is really honest? Rember honesty is in the eye of the viewer.
Michael_White 11/28/2008 12:23:26 PM
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"The Matchmaker says:"The girl I loved she thought she can do better". This girl she wanted a taller man, with deep tan,long hair, and bigger dick. Who could play the guitar.
So she said "no" when he first kneeled down to propose. So the Matchmaker hired a whore named Steed, a male prositute who advertised:"Long hair and dick as thick as a can of chili. And who could learn to play a few cords."
And Steed pretended to meet her by accident. First at Church, then at the library. The Matchmaker paying two hundred dollars per date. And took notes as the whore told him how much she liked her nipples played with from behind. An how best to make her come two ot three times.
Steed sent her roses. Played her songs. Steed f**ked her in back seats and hot tubs. Then didn't call her for a week, two weeks, a month. Until he pretended to meet her by accident at church again.
There Steed said they're finished. Because she's too slutty. Almost a whore.
"I swear" the Matchmaker said, "he called her a whore...the nerve of that guy".
..God bless him.
His last meeting with Steed he payed an extra fifty bucks for a blow job. Steed kneeling there, at work between his knees.
This way when his future wife had her well-researched multiple orgasms, the man in her head would not be a total stranger to her husband."
Chuck Palahniuk, Haunted, 2006.
Michael_White 11/28/2008 1:02:56 PM
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bump
cubfan7 3/14/2009 9:25:48 AM
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You want the truth? You cant handle the truth! (A few good Men) Great line!
Annabell81824 6/6/2009 9:50:03 AM
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Hello, anyone in here from Selma?
adoni 6/6/2009 11:03:19 AM
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Here's honesty
I make a lot of money
I'm busy
I have done all that bs, ex wives and kids
The kids are the only benefit of any relationship
I get BORED
I meet young gorgeous girls and I BUY THEM
Minks or cars on the first or second date
Then I get bored
But, while it lasts they have fun
I've written over 50 books and make a bunch of films
I have a few close friends ALL MALES all way older than me who like me are people that created companies and made money, LOTS OF IT
I could care less what someone else 'thinks', my intellect is superior to anyone I ever met, I have created whole new areas of physics and math
I'm on a plane by myself on this planet
I'm here to ENJOY my life and there is NO ONE who I want to spend more than a few hours with
If I spend more than that with anyone I GET BORED and end up not being attracted to the person I meet
So, there's HONESTY
The only thing any woman can entice me with, is a. her looks
I could care less about her b. brains
My interests are so diverse, NO ONE can converse with me on all the topics I'm interested in
So, the few humans who can have intelligent discourse with me about what I'm interested in, are usually males and very old, who have a lot of wisdom about minutiae most would find BORING
Yeah baby, you look marvelous
So what do you think about my prime algorithm?
What do you think about my planetary distance formula that is replacing Titiusl-Bodes
What do you think about dating someone who has LAWS OF MATH AND PHYSICS named after them while they are alive
What do you think about dating someone who has over 100,000 intelligent people who JOINED his religious movement
What do you think about someone who draws a few lines on a canvas and gets 100,000.00 for it from his collectors
What do you think about someone that will be the ONE they truly divide TIME upon in the future
forget BC and AD
It will be
BS and AS
hahaha
There, I'm honest, no woman can hold my attention for much more than a great meal in a fine restaurant and MAYBE a toss in the sack if their conversation hasn't totally turned me off
The LESS SAID THE BETTER
I don't lie, I'm BRUTALLY HONEST
I've found women HATE HONESTY
The one and only
ADONI
Ron_092 6/6/2009 12:18:43 PM
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Adoni: "I don't lie, I'm BRUTALLY HONEST"
Lets not forget that Adoni is also brutally psychotic, and the only "laws" of math and physics that he has named after him are those pseudo-intellectual numerology-based, formulae that he has "self-published" and named himself in "books" that wouldn't be accepted as English composition in a grade 6 class.
The sad part is, I think Adoni actually believes the drivel that he spews, and that makes him one of the saddest creatures I've yet encountered.
Annabell81824 6/28/2009 7:01:02 PM
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WOW, what a bunch of children. UNREAL, my list just got shorter of what I expect from a REAL man........SAD !!
JeanND 6/29/2009 12:16:18 PM
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I did write along reply, but why bother - I am a woman... I don't want most men's brand of truth - if you think your spouse, girlfriend or casual lay is always telling you the truth your in for a surprise - most people don't really want the truth anyhow - you say you do, but if you had it you'd cringe inside - life is not all sugar and spice - you say you want honest, but I bet you have faked your share of orgasims, and told men how huge their tool was when really it compared to a vienna... lol... and they told you how sweet your ass is and it is really the size of a barn, with the bays open... I don't want brutal honesty in a relationship, I like all the nice little white lies that are shared, tell me my **** and ass are still fantastic, I will tell you are hung like a horse and you know what, you don't need to be, your probably hung just fine, but you need to hear it - if your married with 6 kids and say your single, shame on you and I'd quit you in a heartbeat - but I'd understand your lie, sometimes people are just unhappy and to get what they need, they lie... if you tell me you were your high schools star quarter back, and you weren't, well so what... people have fantasys, sometimes they just spill out of their mouth - lol, like the Adoni guy above, he has lots of fantasys that just spiled out.. hehe... me, I don't mind lying to you about the small stuff... if want my breast to be real, then ok they are, if you enjoy being something you aren't so long as it isn't hurting anyone, then be it... but if you lie about the big things, shame on you, if you love someone tell them you fib, maybe you can work past it, if you love someone, and they are the fibber, help them see that the truth may not be so exciting, but it's real and you love them even if they are a bring old slouch... I tell my fair share of fibs, I am not married accasionally (no, I do not lie to my husband, if he asked, I'd tell him), I was 30 last weekend, and I'd fib my eyeballs out to find 2 straight guys who wanted to have a threesome on a regular basis - I would - see how honest I am : )
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bigfuzzyteddybear 10/19/2009 8:35:37 PM
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One does not have to be brutal to be truthful. It is all in the words one chooses. If anything is said with consideration for the other's feelings, it will most likely be received as it was intended, regardless of the content or context. The problem here is that people are so wrapped up in their own fantasies they miss the larger picture. People are people, and we all have value in God's eyes, whether we acknowledge that or not. If you cannot accept someone for who and what they are, then the problem lies with you: not the other person. The underlying truth about honesty is this: people do not tell the truth when they are insecure; in themselves, their circumstances, or their future. Honest, genuine communication happens when people realize that the truth does not hurt anyone, especially when it is expressed with compassion. And there is a side benefit: telling the truth, even when it may be to our detrement, saves us from further humiliation and/or chastisement in the future. If men and women could learn to tell the truth, especially about themselves, the world would be a much happier and saner place to live, and we would not be raising more generations of young people who are afraid to be "real" for fear of rejection. There are larger principles at work here. Those who grasp the value of honesty equating to "truthfulness" will eventually end up on the winning side in life. You have heard the old adage; "Nice guys finish last!" to which I say "Better to finish last with dignity than not at all!".
AHTOH48 10/19/2009 8:40:24 PM
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know i not honest. i,m really an asshole. so i guess i don't make the grade. good luck in your search.