How many dates before sex?
jkeithy (this topic's creator)7/30/2007 12:54:31 AM
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chef_kuhn 8/1/2007 10:21:16 AM
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women usualy decide after 2 dates of when they will sleep with you. some just feel like doing it after the first night, if you said things right. but for me, they give it up before the date starts
RReLoad 8/7/2007 4:50:47 PM
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` I don't `date`, never have; well:
- Since JrHS, so:
-Dont much care.
Never was a `player`,
-only a very few entire life.
IOW:
-I `walk my talk`,
- RRegarding:
~ NO `Wick Dipping` unless tizz intended 2B "4Ever"...
firefreaq 8/10/2007 10:38:32 PM
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I THINK THAT IT DEPENDS ON THE CONNECTION.. IF YOU MADE A GREAT CONNECTION.. WHY WAIT..? BUT YOU HAVE TO MAKE SURE THAT ITS A STRONG CONNECTION.. YOU DONT WANT IT TO BE JUST A ONE NIGHT STAND.. ITS BEST TO WAIT ... TO HAVE SEX... IT MAKES IT MUCH MORE SPECIAL WHEN YOU WAIT..
msemily 8/14/2007 5:19:20 PM
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reload.........i'm not surprised...........chef...........yr full of shit........personally......i don't want a 'strong' connection......one nite is about all i want to see of most
chef_kuhn 8/23/2007 3:40:37 AM
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lol. no, I usually meet and then have sex that night
Twice_baked_taders 8/25/2007 12:08:01 AM
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I have never eaten dates before sex. Are they aphrodesialacks or sumthin?
starryeyed_1 9/3/2007 11:09:11 AM
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maxcute 10/5/2007 3:42:42 PM
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makes it hard to have sex if you eat your date? or if you eat your date maybe you are having sex?
QuietHunter 10/6/2007 6:16:01 AM
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or if you eat your date maybe you are having sex?
Max - well, depends on if you are in the Oval office or not......
sorry, couldn't resist there.
As far as how many dates before sex ? Dunno - but never been fond of dates to begin with. A couple dozen strawberries though, that might be acceptable. Skip the champange though, it all tastes like vinegar to me.
tck_beachbum 10/6/2007 8:46:09 AM
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I like the kind of chick where you have sex BEFORE you go on a date, that way you at least know if going on the date will be worthwhile.
TOXXXIC 10/13/2007 2:30:00 PM
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ask her, how many dates before we get busy? upfront works if you are that shallow
..........my first question is........have you ever been a man?
jojo39 11/5/2007 1:31:57 AM
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just be cos they shout dinner dont mean u get dessert, if there is an instant attraction y not? but at a pace that suits both, lol
Twice_baked_taders 11/6/2007 12:59:25 AM
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lol tox! Dat made me laugh.
How many dates before sex? Depends on what your there for. It it's sex
then I'd take tck's advice. Das booty! If yah got something long term in mind...the longer
the better.
Vontoria4 11/20/2007 4:01:36 PM
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well i SHOULD say wait until at least the 3rd date if its someone you are really interested in having a long term relationship with.... now is that what I do? LOL i'm not gonna answer that lol
stinkeasereturn 11/20/2007 6:05:36 PM
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Yeah tater, but I like prunes -- they loosen my stools just the way I like them.
Githyanki 12/19/2007 7:49:01 PM
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Quote from the local Cosmopolitan rag:
"If nothing has happened by the 3rd date something is definitely wrong." Of course our divorce rate could have something to do with attitudes like that. 53% last time I checked. And then they wonder why I don't want to marry them on the first date. Trust me, it happens!
Reminds me of the comely young lass who said to her friend while looking at me: "He is the guy I want to marry one day". And no, I didn't and don't know her at all. So much concentrated determination in one small female package can be thoroughly frightening
badcracker 1/4/2008 1:59:20 PM
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Hmmm, dating 'before' sex? What a novel idea. I shall try that sometime...
WebcamMostie 1/8/2008 7:08:37 PM
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I say hold off as long as possible- drives them absolutely nuts. That and the fact that anticipation is half the fun!
maxcute 1/10/2008 2:18:59 PM
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Most women decide if they will sleep with you within the first few minutes of a date. But not necessarily sleep with you on that date. Ladies is this true in you opinions?
Rollo_Quarters 1/10/2008 9:40:23 PM
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As a "take-off" from WC Mostie's post....
Figure out who you want to target then sleep with all his friends and let THEM tell him how good you are! 
Appaloosa51 1/11/2008 12:36:25 AM
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hmmmm ... I prefer olives over dates ... I think women prefer bananas over dates though .... Hail Passion Fire !!! Dang Badcracker and Vontoria is HOT !!! I bet they like food too !!!
362636 5/1/2008 10:08:58 PM
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Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm???
Extasi 5/16/2008 10:15:27 AM
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I dont count the dates, but it's usually round the 2 month mark!!
Nope, I'm deadly serious... they wait though, god bless their lil cotton socks!!!
chai_tea 5/27/2008 9:22:28 AM
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How much sex before a man will ask you out on a date??? or sorry I read this wrong...hahahhahah
swamper40 5/27/2008 5:43:27 PM
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come here i'll explain it to you Chai Tea babe
biker_44 5/27/2008 6:19:36 PM
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I am reluctant to stick my wax tadpole in a woman who does not hold out. Makes me think shes got critters or something like that.
scorpio45 5/27/2008 6:27:40 PM
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MAXCUTE:: Most women decide if they will sleep with you within the first few minutes of a date. But not necessarily sleep with you on that date. Ladies is this true in you opinions?"
I think so Max, I think I siad so somewhere in these pages before.....both sides size one another up, its just becomes a matter of time from there. Unless you put Bill Buckner on first base to handle any ground balls you should be fine..
deluxe 6/3/2008 12:38:35 AM
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"when I found out where kids came from,.... I quit doing it!". - my old friend Gordon Adaskin.
362636 6/8/2008 8:29:12 AM
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LOL!
guamgalincali 7/2/2008 3:28:47 AM
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LOL!!! I agree with TOXman, 1st question should be: Have you ever been a man...or a woman for that matter!! LOL..
Earthwyrm 7/2/2008 3:58:32 AM
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Well ..... If it's easy for you to get, experience has proven to me that sooner or later it is just as easy for someone else to get. So if nothing but to easy my mind, and I would imagine anyone else with a relationship history like mine, hold off for a while, build up to it.
Cimmaron 7/2/2008 4:03:47 AM
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"1st question should be: Have you ever been a man...or a woman for that matter!! LOL.."
I hate multiple choice questions..
Doomgurl 7/11/2008 9:01:24 AM
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it all depends on how each party feels about sex on the first date - if it happens, then it happens - if neither party is comfortable with having sex on the first, second or even third date, then its up to them to decide when it happens.
Personally, if i am reeeeaaally attracted to someone and they are to me - then sure - why NOT have sex on the first date - but then, if I want to get to know them a little better, then i'll wait....
it all depends on the individual!
enlightend_rogue 7/12/2008 1:38:53 AM
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Date, what date? Im the pick um up at the bar and take them home for a one nighter type guy. No strings no emotions. Just sex.
No seriously, I like to get to know a womwn before I jump into the sack. But that being said I do know that things do happen in the heat of the moment and I have had sex on the first date. But I do love the chase.
gtr420 8/20/2008 8:07:00 PM
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anyone who feels pressured to have sex by which date it is probably should not be on that date anyways. lets face it, if your date is really interested in you and truly respects you, then he/she will wait till it feels right for the both of you. that is really the only right time to have sex. why give into the pressure. if your date will not date you anymore if you dont do it on the third date then they are doing you a favor, because that shows they only wanted one thing.
WebcamMostie 8/21/2008 7:37:14 AM
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Well...I think the old-fashioned thinking still holds true- if you sleep with a guy quickly, as in the first date or whatever? I would assume he would wonder how many other guys you would jump into bed with if you jumped that quick with him- that, and...guys have a tendency to separate the 'easy' ones from the ones they would take home to meet mom-
...but then again, I like The Walton's reruns, hahaha
Mafiaqueenisback 8/21/2008 10:55:34 PM
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Now a days it shouldn't be until after the blood test results come back clean. So, how many dates do you have before you ask he/she to have the tests done?
Hunter_Rep 8/21/2008 11:41:05 PM
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i just got my test results back mafia, ya ready to go out?
Mafiaqueenisback 8/23/2008 5:28:41 AM
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Maybe I don't have mine back. Be afraid. Be very afraid. LOL And besides, you're married.
Hunter_Rep 8/24/2008 12:36:32 AM
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well she got her test results back to so she can join us
Hunter_Rep 8/27/2008 2:07:45 AM
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damn i think i scared her off.
urdreamgurl 11/15/2008 7:52:25 PM
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it really depends on the connection
michael20051234 11/22/2008 8:50:30 PM
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Most women I know. Know whether they are going to have sex with you with in the first 30 seconds of meeting you.
Cowgirl_Diva 11/22/2008 10:08:21 PM
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Are there actually This Many of us HOME on a Saturday Night??? Seriously, I KNOW I really need to get a life now!!! No offense to you all here!
rodner 5/13/2009 10:55:55 AM
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Extasi Though the many miles between us. its only open road. Along which we'll witness, fond memories blossom from the many seed's we sew. You are georgous
rodner 5/14/2009 7:50:38 AM
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Come on is there really some kind of standard? as to how many dates before sex. I think it's a chemistry thing light darkness smell touch taste heart pounding feel's like it's going to burst doesn't matter how long it is to me so long as the stars are in the right place
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