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Personally, I think sex is way better after 50 than it ever was before. You enjoy it more and can take your good old time about it. Long Luxurious sessions!

HUSH....shhhh

wouldn't want the youngsters gettin jealous

It's been getting better since I started!!!!!!!!!

I feel that I am getting better with age and I will never tell you my secret LOL!!!

yep, I was very naive, raised Catholic, but was secretly a passionate, creative, artistic person. Married a yuppy at all others pointing to the "right" person that lied, cheated and stole, shut me down, I was 200 lbs. when I filed for divorce. Then met the musician when I was 50. Stupidly thought that after 10 years of no intimacy at all (not my doing) that HE was wonderful...not, he stole my song! A few bad, very short relationships, I soon started realizing, ITS ME that is great, passionate and wonderful...I lost 70 llbs. started writing again and no one now believes that I was ever shy! AND I have a new interest, very new...that is 36!!! However that doesn't mean gross men can comment here or anywhere. If anyone can tell me how to explain to those men that is not attractive to women? or just hit delete! Last one, on another site, wanted to wear a dress for me, willing to fly down from Alaska? Am I still naive...how weird did the world get in the 30 yrs I wasn't in it? Jo

Yeap ... SEX and MORE is better over 50 for me ... and better for those under 50 who wanna love me ... (wink) ... thats a real ringer ... sex over 50 ... YES ... YES and did I say YES ... better bigger bestest dang thing of all ( for me that is ) ... HAIL MINGLES BABES !!!!! May the passion fire come to the surface of all things ... even sex over 50 ... loving over 50 ... no matter how old she may be ... (wink) HAIL PASSION FIRE !!!!

I agree, sex is better with time. I've come to understand that you learn about life up to around 40 and begin to live it and love it more.

For me sex begins with a kiss. If you can reach down and touch someones soul and loose your own breath, thats where it all begins, why rush it? I've been around the block a few times but there are but a few people who can take me to the mountaintop and share it. Most people want to get there on their own and use you for their vehicle.

Personally, I rather get their with her and share it.

I suspect everyone over 50 will 'discover' this 'fact'.

Of course, we forget a lot as we get to 50 and beyond also, lol.

For me, the college years in my 20's and early 30's were the best sexually. Sex was mindless, carefree, in abundance, and physically achievable 2-3 times a day. I've got some wonderful memories of living life purely for beer, sex, and the next good time, with no 'real life' worries at all.

Sex in my mid-30's and beyond started to involve responsibility, commitment, being careful, and less of an immature excuse to just f*ck every chick that walked. There's a huge difference between making love and having sex, maybe making love got better. But the mindless entertainment of wanton sex subsided substantially.

I'll be 50 some day and I'll let you know if sex gets better, but as of right now sex of the past has today beat by miles and miles. No complaints though, the sex of today is real and it's real good, the sex of the past is a mere memory.

the REAL truth on this subject is that sex gets extremely after

SIXTY FIVE ! how 'bout it ladies...do you agree or not ?

patrick

" can take your good old time about it"

Thats because we keep forgetting what we're doing..

"If you can reach down and touch someone's soul ..."

It's never been a soul I touched when I reached down, Scorpio. Problem is perhaps that I don't have a soul. Can't afford it.

Anyway, my agreement is all over the place: sex after 50 is a different dimension. However, 30 years ago as today, it appears difficult to find women with a matching appetite. And the "scientific proof" that women supposedly love sex more than men has not trickled into the anecdotal evidence of my personal--limited, I agree--experience.

I'd love to hear vehement disagreement and loud protest! Convince me I am wrong, please ...

Much like food, alcoholic beverages, chocolate, and most of the good things in life, when your younger it's more about quantity. It's not until one matures into the realization that quality of anything is much more satisfying than just as much, as many (or as many times) as possible. Do I miss the 18 hour sessions of my 20s and 30s? Not really, I remember how sore and tired I was afterward and much like Chinese food I was hungry for more in half an hour anyway. Now I am happy with one or two good meals a day, and can even skip a day or two now and then.

I find sex is better now at 50. I kind of have to agree it is more about quality now. Lasts a lot longer too.

"I'll be 50 some day and I'll let you know if sex gets better, but as of right now sex of the past has today beat by miles and miles. No complaints though, the sex of today is real and it's real good, the sex of the past is a mere memory."

Translated that means: that he wore out his right hand and now he has to do it with his left.. and when he hits 50, he hopes that the yoga class will allow him to be flexible enough to... uh...

I have to say sex does get better after 50 at least for me it did no longer having to owrry about getting pregnant hey that is great so why would it not be better after 50. Now if I could find the right man I would be in my glory and I don't mean a once a week man either want as much as I can get, in a monogamous relationship with a wonderful caring man.

Cim.. that was just pain MEAN spirited!! He wasn't talking to you and you just HAD to slam him!!!! I now know why there's a WAR going on between the two of you!!!! LEAVE him alone why don't you?

To answer the question, SEX is TOTALLY great no matter what age...

do any of you actually use protection, HIV is on the up, its not a gay thing or a young thing, its an everyone thing