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Hope you find this helpful. All the best!
On a more serious note: (as if this wasn't serious enough already...lol) appreciate your 'alone'-ness in other words; and appreciate others for their 'together'-ness, and realize that right now, this day, this moment, whatever moment you're in, you have the power of choice...the choice to be or do something that will decide and/or prolong, minimize, or distinguish the loneliness altogether...no one on earth completes anyone...they either compliment & enhance, or criticize and harm you...one way or another, we get what we put out...in the form of our mates, lives, and actions based on the decisions we "choose" to make or not make...
Smile for the sheer pleasure of knowing 'you're in MInglesland!'
Okay, I'm done for real...lol...
I feel like i'm going nuts.
I don't have the courage to talk to women.
I just don't know how to talk to them.
I'm scared talking to women in public.
PR by focusing inward you may find the strength and the courage to talk to women. You must be confident in who you are to be able to convey that confidence in the way you carry yourself.
I'm nervous around public sometimes.
and I'm not that good of small talk.
When reading the girls' posts in here I feel very lucky to be a mingler.
Thank you all people for taking the time to confort and advise others.
Cheers (as my boss says 
)
I agree with guam ,,,,Theres a peaceful beauty in being alone and more poeple should learn to embrace and enjoy it ,,,because when its gone ,,trust me you will miss it.
Hey Mike !! I say cheers !! all the time ,,,haha am I ( The Boss ) hmmmmm I have to go now imagination is going off like a frog in a sock.
Shemhamforash !!!
SpiritRogue
There is beauty in numbness ,,its called Peace.
1. How often does the husband honor his blood family over his own wife?
2. Such is a recipe for disaster!
3. In-law problems are often the result of a husband who allows his mother and father to interfere in his relationship with his wife.
Thou shalt frequently tell thy wife how important & valuable she is to thee. (Phil 2:3; Prov 31:10-11)
Thou shalt hold thy wife's love by the same means that thou won it. (SOS 5:10-16)
1. Men persue their future bride with doting ceaseless attention. Once married the husband views marriage as a goal accomplished an on to other of life's challenges. He then gives his ceaseless doting attention to the job, the boys or anything but his wife. She on the other hand viewed marriage not as a goal met, but as the beginning of a relationship. She viewed his doting attention as a down payment of attentions to come. He viewed it as a means to merely get her to say "I DO".
2. This guy really WON the love of his future wife. He looked good because he groomed his appearance for her. He smelled good, because he regularly bathed and gargled. And he spoke words of "sweetness" to his love. But give many husbands a few years of marriage and they let their appearance and hygiene slip. But worst of all the sweetness towards their wife is gone. The wife proclaims to her friends, "Did he ever change after we said 'I do'!" Guys, if you want the nights to be hot, you best start warming up your wife in the day with words of kindness.
3. Buy your wife flowers on a regular basis.
Thou shalt actively establish family discipline with thy wife's help. (2 Timothy 3:15; Ephesians 6:4; Deuteronomy 6:6-9)
1. Few would argue that the wife is the primary parent involved in the daily task of interacting with the children. But God has placed the father as the head of the household and that means that you must work hard along side of your wife in establishing family discipline. Many fathers leave the majority of the work of raising the kids up to the wife. In child custody cases, the mother almost always get control of the kids, not because she is a better parent, but because she is the one who has been most involved with them. God commands fathers in Ephesians 6:4 "And, fathers, do not provoke your children to anger; but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord." You must be directly involved with your children. And then be careful not to "provoke" them to anger, because you have not really taken the time to understand exactly what happened and why. Some fathers alienate their children because they hastily dish out too harsh a punishment because they want to get back to their TV show or reading the paper. To these husbands, children are an interruption imposed upon him by the wife. Sad indeed.
2. Train up a child in the way he should go, even when he is old he will not depart from it. Prov 22:6
3. POEM: "PLEASE, DADDY, WON'T YOU GO?"
o A little girl's bright shining eyes with face aglow,
o Says: "Daddy, It's time for church-Let's Go!
o They teach us there of Jesus' love, of how he died for all,
o Upon the cruel cross to save those who on Him will call."
o "Oh, no," said Daddy, "Not today. I've worked hard all week,
o And I must have one day of rest; and I'm going to the creek.
o For there I can relax and rest; and fishing is fine they say.
o So run along; don't bother me, we'll go to church some day."
o Well months and years have passed away,
o but Daddy hears that plea no more;
o "Let's go to Bible school." Those childhood days are over.
o And Daddy's grown old, life's almost through,
o He finds time to go to church, but what does daughter do?
o She says: "Oh Daddy, not today-I stayed up half the night;
o I know you know that church can wait...you understand my plight!
o Then Daddy lifts a trembling hand to brush away the tears,
o As again he hears the pleading voice, distinctly through the years.
o He sees a small girl's shining face upturned, with eyes aglow,
o As she says, "It's time for Bible school; please,
o Daddy, won't you go?"
o (Author Unknown)
Thou shalt remember to do all the little things for thy wife when you say you will. (Mt 5:37)
1. Jesus instructs all Christians, "let your statement be, 'Yes, yes' or 'No, no' and anything beyond these is of evil." Mt 5:37. Husbands, when you say you will do something for your wife, have the consideration to do it! Why should she justifiably nag you?
2. Your wife shouldn't have to get you to sign some binding oath to get you to make the bed, take out the garbage or take her out to dinner as you agreed. By doing what you say you will, you earn her trust in other areas.
3. Ever wonder why your wife reacts is a funny way?
Wife's Reaction
Husband's Action
When the wife feels insecure.
The husband is not being a spiritual leader.
When the wife takes matters into her own hands and assumes the leadership role.
The husband has allowed problems to continue and even get worse.
When the children rebel, the wife blames her husband.
The husband has not supported his wife in disciplining the children.
When the wife becomes resentful of financial pressures.
The husband has been spending extra money on things he enjoys.
When the wife feels inferior and jealous.
The husband praises or admires other women.
When the wife feels unable to totally give herself (body, soul and spirit) to her husband.
The husband only verbalizes his love when he wants a physical relationship.
When the wife feels frustration from not knowing how to please her husband.
The husband doesn't praise her for specific things.
When the wife turns to others who will listen to her true feelings.
The husband doesn't make the time to listen to his wife.
When the wife feels unprotected.
The husband has not been alert to the dangers which his wife faces.
When the wife feels inadequate in trying to meet her husband's physical needs.
The husband has been lusting after other women.
When a wife mentally gives up and loses all hope
The husband is prideful, never in the wrong, loses his temper to stay in control and never asks for forgiveness.
Keep thine eyes on thy own wife, not thy neighbors. (Prov 5:15-20; Job 31:1; Jer 5:8)
1. The Proverbs writer says it this way, "Drink water from your own cistern, And fresh water from your own well... Let her breasts satisfy you at all times; Be exhilarated always with her love." Prov 5:15-20
2. The ultimate sacrifice that a woman makes in child bearing is her figure. And the media is filled with 17 year old models who are not yet graduated high school and never done a hard days work in their life!
3. Job was wise when he said, "I Have made a covenant with my eyes; How then could I gaze at a virgin?"
4. Job 31:1 But we find that for many, the words of Jeremiah apply, "They were well-fed lusty horses, Each one neighing after his neighbor's wife." Jer 5:8
Thou shalt make every effort to see things from thy wife's point of view. (Gen 21:12)
1. Abraham is a man whose wife actually called him "lord". Sarah had an insight on a personal family matter and Abraham felt that she was wrong. "But God said to Abraham, "Do not be distressed because of the lad and your maid; whatever Sarah tells you, listen to her" Gen 21:12. Did you catch that? God told Abraham to obey his wife! He had not taken the time to see things from her point of view. Husbands and wives often live and think in different worlds. A wise husband will "listen" to his wife before God steps in and forces him to. Foolish husbands are arrogant "power-tripper
