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Well i guess when you have kids it goes hand in hand with giving up a life of your own since it isn't all yours any more. Its a hard concept to swallow when you realize it but it just kinda happens. I had to give up love because the man i loved couldn't love my son the way he deserved to be loved. And looking back i think he was kind of jelous of my relationship with my son. I miss him every day but i know i did the right thing and knowing that helps me to move on. Hopefuly i can find a man that can love both of us completely. Who knows what the future will bring right?

My Kids are both in their 20's now. When I've looked back I know I've given up so many things for them even as they were young adults. Same thing for my mom when she got older. There came a time when in my relationships with them that I regreted it. I thought what was this all for! I'd definitely be more comfortable financialy, emotionally, and physically if I had focused on myself. I've passed that crisis. I can't say i would do all again though! But they have taught me what real love and commitment is. And for me, i know that when love is that deep, that precious there are no other choices when it comes to the well being of that love than to selflessly do the right things for it. I look at them now and they are amazing people, and my greatest accomplishment. So one can never look back. U just go forward.