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not at my house! my guy could be a gold medal winner in long distance running! he's run and hid from every little problem and inconveniece we've ever experienced. sure wish i could find someone to have at my back...i'm still trying to pull the knife he stabbed me with out of mine.

You said a mouthful there sister!

I believe the title of the thread should have been the line from that footloose song.

Where have all the good men gone

And where are all the gods?

Where's the street-wise Hercules

To fight the rising odds?

Isn't there a white knight upon a fiery steed?

Late at night I toss and turn and dream

of what I need.

I need a Hero.

Sound better?

Also, the whole stabbing in the back thing. Remember what Oscar Wilde "True friends stab you in the front."

Umm... Here I am ....

You know what??? There really ARE good guys all around us women, the problem is when they tell a bad joke, we bolt! ...lol...nahhh...just KIDD'N ya! about the bad joke I mean...lol..

Ha! I crack myself up!! LOL..Yes, I'm in a peculiar mood this side of midnight..hooowoooo...lol...okay, I better stop..I'm scarin' myself..lol.

Good luck to you....I've yet to meet one that didn't have some problem or another.

Instead of dising on men, it would be refreshing to hear

women stand up & confess they're not very good @ selecting.

If the ones complaining would admit they didn't expend much

energy seeking a good man, & we are out here, & move on,

they would be well served.

I certainly have picked some winners..LOL

"Good luck to you....I've yet to meet one that didn't have some problem or another."

Keep looking, you'll find someone that is 100% perfect all of the time.

There are people out there who never have one problem or another.

(Maybe look in the mirror... do you see one there? LOL )

What is a good man according to woman these days?

There is someone out there for everyone. A lot of times we just fail to see them or realize we have them already. No ones perfect. Male or Female. I say all the time, "I wouldn't take a million for the wife I have, and wouldn't give a nickle for another one." I would also like to think she feels the same, but am afraid or to smart to ask. LOL Good luck,really

A good man is someone who has 80 percent of what you want and 20% you can work with!

Don't confuse a good man with a man that puts up with a fat bitchy woman. They're not the same.

LOL to both the above.

Flower you put it right ,its all about YOU!!Woman want to be worshiped as the King!!

eshack and Flowerpistol have is spot on really.

In my short experience with women, a lot often go for the short term easy option. They're obviously are plenty of brilliant men and women out there, both just need to make considerate decisions and not always accept the first half decent person who comes knocking on their door.

i'm pretty sure if ya check Ebay or mayabe Craig's list. they're not cheap tho. LMAO

really like what you stated. (flowerpistol) nobodyies perfect but if ya find the one you wanna work with then your 5 steps ahead

I now need to find a man who likes 80% crazy 20% normal...LOL

flower listol,,,, (1)it's very easy to get the kind of man that you want...(2)it's much easier to get the one that you need...(3)if you can deside which one you prefer; you'll be ok.....

I have a philosophy, that there isn't a mr right. he's a myth. The closest you can get is a guy who loves you enough to try to become him, and that you love him to try to become his mrs. right. Love is a comprimise, and a verb, it's something you do. You have to choose to love someone every day for the rest of your life to make it work.

Everyone has a shortcoming. I know I have a few. I cannot change how someone thinks of me. However, I can try to recognize my deficiencies and repair them as best I can. I try not to be too critical of others. If someone behaves in a way that I do not like, I cant change them. Its not my job. All I can change is how I react to their behavior.

Well said Biker

If you are willing to look at people and really believe that they are doing the best that they know how in any given situation, then it is a lot easier to be compassionate toward them.

Men? They are like parking places....all the good ones are taken and the rest are handicapped!

I may have said this before. "For all our faults, (Men) You women get the ultimate revenge, you marry us!

I'm usually at the beach until around 3:00PM, and then on the golf course until 8:00PM.

I'm there in good times and bad times (unless the weather sucks).

I personally think many women go wrong when they try to change their man instead of accepting their man the way he is. I also feel we all put such high expectations on finding that one true companion and soul mate that we miss the opportunity to meet some great people along the way. I include myself in the above statement.

Yeah, men suck! They're always watching their sports, and their cars, and their porn. They're only born with eight toes, and they have a hidden eye inside their belly button that's always getting clogged with lint, and they don't know how to put down toilet seats or use a laundry hamper, and I hear they eat small children with hot sauce and pickles. Did I leave anything out?

No, that pretty well covered it mello. Hurry back to Mars, big party later.

Great! I just have to throw some old boxers on the floor, fart at the dinner table, and pee on something while standing - then I'll be ready to go. On a business note, bought stock in **** shaped drinking straws before that big bachelorette party on Venus.

rofl

hows 20% with 80% you can try to change work?..(almost afraid to post in this forum after first few posts i read..lol)

btw ltw no see to some of you

Come on Ladys,, It is not always the men, We do try to change them every time. We see them and date them, we see things we dont like and then, we say to ourselfs, I can change that,, WRONG,,, Take them the way you found them,,

all the good guys are dating each other heh

if your looking for all the guys. check surfer dudes house. he is gay so ask him. he will know.

well dont know if im a good guy or not,but...ive known some women over the years,not many,that really make a guy want to stick around,and for some reason..i just dont ever go on 2nd dates,because...i like hospitable women,that treat me like they want me to stick around,ive had one or two,...and once a guy has experienced being treated very well by a woman or 2,it s really hard to stick around for those that dont,so i just go on,gracious hospitality goes a long way in impressing me,and alot of others i know,and i just wont settle for less,regardless of how pretty they are,or how good the sex is

You know, I now see why some people on here are still single, and from the looks of it...will stay that way! (clears throat..new2) Everyone needs to remember, no ones perfect, no one will ever be and if you can't accept what YOU have then you can't accept what someone can give you. Everyone has a fault, and there are alot of us that have many faults.. doesn't make us all "bad", "undateable" or "losers", it makes us who we are and have become. Male or female, we all try to look for the "perfect".. why not try just looking for the "happy" and see how it goes from there.

"Male or female, we all try to look for the "perfect".. why not try just looking for the "happy" and see how it goes from there."

Some people are not happy unless things are perfect. It all depends on what one is willing to live with.

Some people alway look over the fence and see the grass is greener on the other side and fail to notice all the BS laying in the tall grass.

As for nice guys, they never finish whereby men finish and are dependable in the long run while bad boys never grow up and are users which leaves the nice guys as a male type of girlfriend at best.

Just saying.....

BTW Good Morning Everyone!