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Seriously! Cant people just come in here and have fun and talk to people, meet new people whatever the case is? No instead they want to go and start a fight with someone that they don't even know, and have to go and call names at people and everything else! I have talked to A LOT of people on here and I enjoy it a lot, total newbie still at this whole thing, but I like it, but every time you turn around there is someone saying something negative about someone else! Its the damn internet! Is it that hard to be able to just get on here and talk to people and meet new people?

problem is marie, there are certain individuals on here, namely hotfootballer and imsexy5 that seem to think it is ok to make sexual comments about my 2 year old daughter. now i have been here for damn near 10 years, i have made alot of friends and they will defend me and my children as i would for them. now most arguments are about political bs, but when we see a fake come in here and start some real serious crap, we dont put up with it. as you continue to look around and read the forums, you will learn that mosty arguments are just good natured fun, but you will also learn that certain people dont deserve to live let alone be in a place like this.

Marie...it's too easy to come here and enjoy the company of one another's chat...the problem comes up when you have people not too right in the head, begging to get attention no matter how or why - as long as people entertain their ignorance, they keep doing it...I've been entertaining imsexy5's ignorance because it humors me..I speak to him with foul language because that's all he understands...where I'm from people call that 'a lack of home training'...I really don't know who hotfootballhead is, and don't really care, but he seems to jump on imsexy5's bandwagon with the ignorance, so I entertain them a bit until I'm bored of it, and just focus on the real personalities here...but let it be known, if we minglers that have been here for a while don't appreciate the comments, remarks, and ignorance of a newbie, we let it be known...lol it's the same mentality...when elder people don't like someone, they come out and say it...same thing here...as long as you are who you are, we will be who we are to you...(hugs)

i hate it when crane uses big words, i am gonna tell star on you.

Why am I always stuck having to spank everyone???

I never started a fight, all of you did when I defended myself and said you shouldn't accuse a man of a crime if you don'y have any proof, and then all you people jumped my ass

No some people jumped you, you attacked anyone. Remember me? I sent you an email and tried to explain it to you. Your response: name calling.

I never called you a name. I was nice to you and you attacked me. Deal with it. I still have not degraded you as you have myself and others here.

If you arent going to say something directly to someones face, than dont use online as an opportunity to say it. It is this sense of bravery that people get when they are anonymous that gives the blogosphere a bad reputation.

So true Book.

exactly and i see this and trust me i have spent my boring day today reading these blogs and shit and i was just like WTF? and trust me i have talked to a lot of you guys, (BOOK , star, crane....) and i enjoy talking to you guys and everything and i see where you are coming from hunter, i would do the same thing if i was there when it happened! I just read some of the things that was on there from this sexy guy and another one and things that they said was like wow! no wonder you all attack him, and the comment wasnt made to you guys in general....

marie...bingo!! lol like I had said earlier..lol when we don't like someone, we let it be known...lol

Marie, your opinion yours. Honestly you aren't alone in having that opinion.

Me, I have to truly believe in something to fight. I don't believe in this type of name calling. Call someone a moron, an idiot, a dufus... no problem. The N word, C word, slut and whore are just out for me. There are a few other terms that I would not use nor do I want to see them in print.

I would repost Pedro's posts but they are considered around here as borderline child porn. Even with that said, the parents involved would be hurt all over again and I do not want to be the one that does that to them.

Pedro was banned for it and he knows why. He rewrites history so new people will accept him.

No one involved walks away clean. Our real friends around here know us enough to realise when we think something is worth fighting for, we will. When we think fighting is a waste of time and energy and the collateral damage that could happen, it just isn't worth it.

I wish we could all get along, but that is a pipedream...

Lisa has it right though, always try to do it privately. Sad to say privately does not always work...

yer right star, i always try to do it privatly, but last weeks i forgot to close the curtains and many people saw my ass up in the air. boy was my wife mad

LOL

Redneck buns..LOL...service with a smile or was that a crack...LOL

i once pulled my pants down at night time, it was so shite 3 airplanes thought it was a signal light from the airfield and tried to land in my front yard

*grabs her sunglasses*

LMAO!!

marie -

like the outside rearview-mirror of your car says (to an extent) ....

"CAUTION: Objects in mingles like to appear bigger than they are"

My apologies in advance, Marie...I've been a bad boy today.

lately? yer the leader of us bad boys cap. mostie voted you in

Well jinkies (to quote Thelma from Scooby-Doo), I'll explain, in plain and simple layman's terms, just what it is that makes people say super nasty things to one another on this site-

There are those of us who have been on here, like, forever...don't let the date of my joining fool you, this is one of umpteen profiles I've had on this site, and I've been here since 99-a lot of us have had go-rounds with a lot of other old timers on this site, so we pretty well 'know' them, without having ever met them in person- although a lot of people have met in person as well, and I married someone from this site.

ANYway.....

There are the really nasty ones on here, the ones who go around spewing (typewritten) verbal vomit, who say THE nastiest things, the shocking things, the things that most others just wouldn't say...and I would venture a guess that they say these things purely for the shock value, and because their lives are probably mundane, boring, milquetoast, you name it- and this is the way they insert a little excitement into their humdrum lives. Then there are those who police the nasty ones, who like to come across as if they are mother/father theresa incarnate- those who are (in their own minds, as in 'legends'..)sensible, upstanding, do-gooders, fair, etc., etc., ad nauseum--it gives them a sense of....well, my guess would be, purpose in their lives, perhaps making them feel that they are far more (insert all of the 'sensible, blah blah blah words here)than they actually are in real life- online, there are a lot of people who can pretty well lay on a persona of something that they more than likely aren't- and for a while, they may convince others that they really ARE the way they portray themselves to be- but of course, once a person starts interacting with them, that golden patina starts to tarnish, and of course what they really are comes out-

And then...there are people like the rest of us---myself as an example-I am what I am, I don't come across like something I'm not, and damn the torpedoes at those who don't like me, or whatever- I'm honest as the day is long, and there are a lot of people on this site who are the same- best bet, seek those out- and leave the nasty ones and the pseudo do-gooders to themselves, to do what they do best: shock, and save- shock, and save.

Can you say B O R I N G?????

I don't come in a whole lot anymore, and for the very reasons mentioned above- I have a life outside of mingles!

mostie I only have TWO words for you and they are NOT "HAPPY BIRTHDAY" .....

"tiger butter"

google it - you'll find it...... a chocolate lover's dream (and so easy to make)

1 pound white chocolate, chopped

1/2 cup chunky peanut butter

2/3 cup semisweet chocolate chips

Microwave white chocolate in a large microwave-safe bowl on medium until melted, about 5 minutes.

Add peanut butter and microwave on high for 1 minute; stir until smooth and creamy.

Spread mixture into a 9 x 9 x 2-inch pan lined with wax paper.

In a small microwave-safe bowl, microwave chocolate chips on medium for 2 minutes.

Drizzle over white chocolate. Cool until firm.

Makes 32 pieces.

(odd place to put a food recipe - this forum about online fighting; but who can argue and fight over food? especially chocolate)

Mostie used BIG words........I almost had to look em up ......whew.....

Love that recipe, Cristo! I'm adding it to my cookbooks and your name is gonna be on the place where it says, Recommended by_____________

Good post, Mostie! Couldn't have said it better myself and I agree 100%

funny thing ronnie is that it is a HUGE (old) "southern" thing and I had never heard of it until this past christmas when my niece (now living in arizona) mailed me some in a holiday goodie package

she got the recipe from her HUGE (old) "southern" (arkansas) mother-in-law

I've been addicted to it ever since

and OMG the variations (almonds, ammaretto, dip a "pecan sandie" in it, yada yada yada)

I think it's time to activate/re-activate the "recipes" forums again....

I've had it before, it's absolutely heavenly I just didn't have the recipe nor ever bothered looking for it.

I agree and this one needs to be posted onto it

well I gotta' share this with you....

after living in the "south" for 13 years and NEVER had it, I was PIZZED!!!!!!!!!!

and when I asked my niece for the recipe, she said she couldn't give it to me and had promised her mother-in-law to keep the recipe a family secret!

I'm like like WTF?????? Is it something them southerners' only share at their Annual Incest Festivals???

then............. I googled it and LAUGHED MY AZZ OFF!!!

(Results 1-10 of about 2,870,000 for tiger butter)

wow, my mom used to buy tiger butter at a candy store where I used to live (that's cali...they don't make it, they go to the mall and BUY it, lol)- it was basically white and dark chocolate swirled together with a peanut butter taste to it- gooooooood stuff.

Fattening, too- lol-

But hey...I could go under a bus tomorrow, and then I would wish I had eaten that piece of cheesecake, or tiger butter, or...(except the bus system in michigan is laughable, I don't think I have even seen one around hardly at all...of course, with the road rage here, I could be hit by an irate driver, pissed because I dared to cross the road at the crosswalk while the 'walk' sign was on..lol)

dictionary.com, robbo, lol hey, is that Julie in the pic with you?

until 1972, My grandfather owned the Greyhound Bus Station in Port Huron, Michigan right across the bridge from Canada (Windsor I think)

yeah, it was a "bus station" but more than that, it was a place to stop and eat at his cafe/diner (which was the whole point of Greyhound Bus Stations back in those days)

and they made fresh donuts all day long (the fried cake donuts and "old fashioneds" that were so good) - They also had a "Sullivan's" ice-cream and soda shop inside (I don't even know if Sullivan's Dairy is still in business, you'll have to ask the captain)

after 1972, they stopped with the bus-station/diner/cafe thing and moved to vending machines

He passed away shortly after that but the "bus station" (without the cafe, just the vending machines) stayed in the family for years

i hate when mostie uses big words, always confuses me

Yes Mostie, that's Jules....... and she thinks this tiger butter thing is lookin good.......thanks Cristo....

We fight because it's fun and tck is such an easy, stupid target.. and we like to watch him bring in his little buddies from chat to help him.. they're esp. stupid and easy targets!!!

Yesireeee!!!!!

....and because of selfishness, lack of mental discipline, failure to get on board and failure to grasp the concept of what is good for the whole.

"we"?

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