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What is wrong with women?
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zsn1gman (this topic's creator)
8/11/2008 2:14:36 AM
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zsn1gman (this topic's creator)
8/11/2008 2:26:11 AM
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Is there a good woman out there that doesn't need to waste my time playing childish games?

Is there a girl out there who is looking for an honest relationship and really means it? I can't tell you how many people I have talked to who say that they want a strait shooting honest person but that always ends up being a lie.

Am I living a fantasy thinking that there is an honest non egocentric women in the US that actually means what they say? Maybe my expectations are to high?

Someone here knows.

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H_W
8/11/2008 9:01:37 AM
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Wimmens! Can't live with them.....pass the beer nuts.
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MikePowers
8/11/2008 9:31:24 AM
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Perhaps you should start a fitness diary in order to forget all those disappointing experiences.

We are eager to know how far you run and what the temperature is in your area. *l*

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MikePowers
8/11/2008 9:31:52 AM
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oops! Time to go to the gym.
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bus377
8/11/2008 9:41:19 AM
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howdy zsn, I guess the answer you seek is in the eye of the beholder. I have a differant view from yours in the fact that I get very discusted with the addage all the good one are either taken or gay so we have a simular problem. I can't say I see very many women or men who know what they want. I don't find many who reside outside a profile. Honesty is in the acceptance and acknowlagement. If you tell someone that you fart in bed and cover up your head and giggle that maybe too honest.LOL! Do you see what I mean. Perhaps the people you spoke to told you the truth, but you just can't handle the stinky parts. Trust the universe we are out there the few who are in it for a better life. Then there are those who may never get it together. Don't get discouraged or get too involved too quick. Take your time. When you have grazed on the best of the pasture and it refuses to grow any longer, leave that pasture.

Hugs, bus377

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CaptainCorelli
8/11/2008 10:17:11 PM
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***"We are eager to know how far you run and what the temperature is in your area. *l*"***

ROFL!!

Damnit, here come the hooligans again!

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ManhattanBabe
8/11/2008 11:09:43 PM
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Zsn, you are not living in a fantasy, i find that alot of men say they want a relationship, but they really dont. I find their are alot of bullshitters out there. What they write in their profiles and what they chat with you, and then when you get to know them is nothing what they have told you from the start. I think its the reel you in snydrome, they tell ya what you want to hear. But im sure you will find someone when you least expect it. Good Luck!!!
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Hunter_Rep
8/12/2008 12:46:21 AM
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Wimmens! Can't live with them.....pass the beer nuts.

no cant live with them.....cant bury em in the back yard cause the damn dog keeps diggin em up

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robbi642
8/12/2008 10:41:11 AM
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"I think its the reel you in snydrome,"

I love fishing.........smile

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Cristobalito
8/12/2008 10:57:36 AM
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The NUMBER ONE THING WRONG WITH WOMEN is........... their decision making process

(after all, they DO like men, and well, most of us don't share that odd disgusting tendancy)

I mean seriously, what do they see in us?

(no offense to perro, tck, and toy - to each their own - or in their case, to "reach" their own)

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MikePowers
8/13/2008 6:07:35 PM
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"Damnit, here come the hooligans again!"

LOL

With toy, pedro, and tck90210, the hooligans could but return. Hope you're having a great summer. My salutations to the wife.

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namewala
8/19/2008 3:56:57 AM
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what is wrong with women ?........the men!

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WebcamMostie
8/21/2008 7:31:36 AM
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Maybe I've just been really lucky, I've never had a problem with someone not wanting a relationship- however, I probably would have been luckier had they NOT wanted one, since for the most part, they all turned out to be duds, lol well, of course, except the one I'm with now- where I want the relationship, and so does he, but that's because it's an awesome relationship- ANYway, I digress....

Sometimes, the best thing to do is be careful of the kind of women you're going after- party girls generally don't want a relationship- and you might want to examine your own actions in a relationship, maybe you're coming across too strong? I'm just throwing things out there, I don't mean that you're like that--just sometimes we need to stand back and look at ourselves objectively- that, or you could talk to a trusted friend and ask them to be straight with you about what they see-

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guamgalincali
8/22/2008 11:18:35 PM
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Agreed, mostgirl...one of the best ones are the mirror ones...the mirror you hold before you is the mirror of truth to your soul, if you're unable to look in the mirror with open eyes, you really don't enjoy self-examination...in which case, you seek fault in everyone, and anything else outside of the mirror's distance...generally speaking of course, no offense meant...just stating philosophy of "The Man in the Mirror." or was it a song?? Hmmm...*WiNk*
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zsn1gman (this topic's creator)
8/26/2008 4:10:42 AM
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I appreciate your responses, you guys are hilarious and I feel a bit better.

Though I am not delusional. I majored in psychology. I don't play games, I am a strait shooter who tells it like it is. And I know when to keep my mouth shut. I maintain a good inventory of myself and I see very well how I act from many perspectives.

The problem is, when a girl says they are looking for someone real, it means they want someone who fits in there little box. Someone who is independent = you have to have a nice car. No games = I wanna play a whole lotta f'in games.

I don't need to parade around with a hot chick on my shoulder in order to prove something to others. And I'm not going be an ego trip for some blood sucking . . .

I was married for 14 years. I don't come on strong at all. I am very open and honest, uncontrolling, which seems to be what woman ask for but don't really want.

The moral of the story is: I truthfully think that I should turn into a player, because I am convinced that they all want to be paraded around like a piece of meat?

Someone please change my mind. Cuz I can play if I have too, but I haven't been driven to that yet.

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cuteaussie30
8/26/2008 6:36:17 AM
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14 years? You must have married very young lol.

Please don't resort to becoming a player....God knows there are enough out there already. I used to think I was destined to always date losers.....until I met my husband smile Keep looking....don't get discouraged. There are great women out there!!

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jaybeee
9/14/2008 2:05:19 PM
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yES gMAN....

I think that i may have exactly the problem as you my friend. Ive only jus recently been dumped by my girlfriend of 6 years. Now in this time i have stayed away from the games of dating and the whole flirting ting. Now i find myself a bit stuck. I find it trickey to approach girls. I need to be better...I WILL BE BETTER!!!

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wintermoon
10/9/2008 1:08:04 AM
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thanks for asking the question what's wrong with women. not all women are the same unless you're attracted to the same types of women in which case, what's wrong with you? anyways you're a psychologist, you have the answer.

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biker_44
10/13/2008 6:26:46 PM
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what's wrong with women????? men! that is what is wrong with women!
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Hunter_Rep
10/17/2008 1:24:19 AM
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my daddy always told me to never trust something that can bleed for a week without dying
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MsAries1
10/17/2008 7:20:14 AM
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yea hunter but u married one and raising another... i know you love them both! hehe, my daddy said that when he was young and God gave him 10 daughters... who's laughing now?!? wink

btw, nothing is wrong with us women, until you piss us off... esp at that time of month... you might not like us boys, but you can't live without us either...

God Bless America. smile

nice answer biker... couldnt say it better myself.

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Keerok
10/17/2008 8:33:52 AM
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A friend once told me "Women: can't live with 'em, can't leave 'em in the car... or they drive away with the car"

grin

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Missourian
10/25/2008 12:31:32 PM
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Does my key chain full of shrunken heads of men go with my rolling-eyeballs? I dont see how women could possibly equal trouble. wink
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Rollo_Quarters
10/25/2008 9:06:38 PM
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^^^^ Is not kidding!

When I first saw her car I thought those were those little balls dangling around the back window. Sorta like ju see on some '57 chebies with bobbling heads in the back window.

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Missourian
10/26/2008 12:27:06 PM
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*LOL* Ahhhh Rollo, always the charmer!!! *S*
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Rollo_Quarters
10/27/2008 10:02:56 PM
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All in fun Sweets.
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