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What do YOU think of FRIENDS with Benefits?
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1hotchic (this topic's creator)
11/6/2008 8:40:37 PM
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1hotchic (this topic's creator)
11/6/2008 8:42:03 PM
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I think Friends with "bennies" can be really FUN! Anyone agree?
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Cimmaron
11/6/2008 8:57:27 PM
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You mean "Benny's" as in speed?
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1hotchic (this topic's creator)
11/6/2008 9:19:00 PM
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No....! A Friend that you F*CK! No strings just f*cking....
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wintermoon
11/6/2008 10:11:07 PM
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isn't this a repeat thread???
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WebcamMostie
11/10/2008 9:11:42 AM
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Repeat or no (and yes, it is), I think it's tacky.
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longthick
11/11/2008 10:05:21 PM
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its a good thing!!!!
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guamgalincali
11/11/2008 10:10:50 PM
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Hmmmm...friends w/benefits...what's that???? lol.
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Rollo_Quarters
11/11/2008 11:08:25 PM
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Hell...I'm lucky to still have a JOB with benefits!

You might want to try Sugardaddy.com although I don't think some of our other members have had much luck there either.

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Cimmaron
11/11/2008 11:21:02 PM
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"No....! A Friend that you F*CK! No strings just f*cking...."

I guess that means that she doesn't want to be tied up..

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Cimmaron
11/11/2008 11:21:39 PM
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I always heard that string isn't strong enough anyway....
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Hunter_Rep
11/12/2008 12:46:55 PM
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ya know what is really tacky...mostie and capt living all thew way up north yet i still aint gotten no fresh salmon
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WebcamMostie
11/12/2008 2:07:22 PM
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lol...we aren't THAT far up north! As for salmon, hm....I'm looking out at the lake right now, and I don't think there are any salmon in there, but geez- there could be, what the heck do I know, lol However! I will contact Shilo, she lives in Alaska and I KNOW she goes salmon fishing!

I'll get her to Fedex it to ya, lol!

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Keerok
11/12/2008 2:49:53 PM
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You have most excellent salmon fishing not far from y'all. A great way to get really, really cold. And watch the natives catch fish.

The smelt-drinking is pretty good, too.

Enjoy!!

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Hunter_Rep
11/17/2008 12:32:48 AM
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oh she knows that kee, she is just making excuses to keep from giving me any salmon, and Shilo is just a tease, comes on here and brags about fishing but wont share none
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Satidevils
11/18/2008 5:42:29 AM
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Good for some.

Not my thing.

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sheilac200358
4/15/2009 4:37:52 PM
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FWB, FB...whatever. Might as well pick up some stranger at the bus station. Personally, I don't believe in people as human vibrators, but whatever floats one's boat.
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elle_louise
8/16/2009 11:19:46 PM
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If you can shut off your emotions than it is perfect for you!

But most likely one of the two ends up feeling more for the other and then things get awkward....and you most likely lose that friendship.

My suggestion in this matter is...to get yourself a "temp". Someone that you treat sort of like your trainer. You go in, exercise, have a shower and leave.

Keep your friends as your friends (unless you know that it is meant to be) and your lovers as lovers.

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schlomo1
8/17/2009 4:27:29 PM
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do they have an available heath-care plan?
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mlady_pamela
8/17/2009 5:45:31 PM
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I cannot even process that that description = benefits! wowzers!
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schlomo1
8/17/2009 5:52:03 PM
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dental plan??
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Fuzzy21
8/17/2009 8:20:28 PM
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Friends with Benefits is a great thing , You just need to have that understanding from the beginning so both people are on same page. I am currently interviewing for a new one.
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frckld1
8/17/2009 8:34:59 PM
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^"I am currently interviewing for a new one."^ Okay, sorry, but I found THAT incredibly funny!
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schlomo1
8/17/2009 8:43:09 PM
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what's the job description?
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Novalee57
8/17/2009 8:51:45 PM
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lol, never happen! My B.O.B will keep the wolf at bay until the universe sends me my other half.
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schlomo1
8/17/2009 8:56:49 PM
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sometimes friends with benefits turn into soul mates, never know till u try ,,hmmm
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Ron_092
8/17/2009 10:04:51 PM
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Had one once. It was fine until she started wanting more. It didn't end badly, (we're still friends) but it ended.
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BoonDockRod
8/18/2009 12:54:10 AM
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never did that....am going to resort to it soon...hahaha..maybe pick a friend who dont really get along with anymore and never see...dont know them well....oh i think i should just call my own wife huh!! hah!!
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crane
8/18/2009 7:55:40 AM
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I'll pass....give me my woman to dump all of my sexual frustrations on...then i'm good...and she will be too.
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Cristobalito
8/18/2009 9:55:51 AM
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I have that "friends with benefits" thing going on with two of my neighbors...

I have the keys to their houses to go in and raid their referigerators and pantries anytime (whether they're there or not) and they have the keys to my place!

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ManhattanBabe
8/18/2009 12:06:41 PM
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i dont see anything wrong with it, long as you agree from the begining, on how its going to be. Ive had one for six years, we are great friends, and do lots of things together, but when we are in relationships we respect each other and dont have sex. Oh i know what some think, blasphemy, but this is what works for me.
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Fuzzy21
8/18/2009 12:37:47 PM
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I agree with you Manhattan Babe.
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tck_beachbum
8/18/2009 12:58:11 PM
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Manny, when was the last time I told you that I love you. wink

(Works for me too... there's a big difference between having sex and making love, both are great, and there's plenty of room in my life for both. smile)

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schlomo1
8/18/2009 3:11:51 PM
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do "pre existing health issues" keep any of them unattainable. wondering if there should be a universal friends with benefits plan available...

bestest is royally f2ucking when making love

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nrokinu
8/18/2009 3:41:23 PM
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I agree with ya too Manny...I had a FWB for over 3 years and we are still friends even though we don't sleep together anymore (he found what he was looking for). If you establish the rules first, there shouldn't be any issues.
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DoRightWoman
8/18/2009 4:30:49 PM
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I agree with Crane. No f buddy's in my life.
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