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Having been on this site for sometime I've seen a lot of things. A LOT OF THINGS!

So, I've decided to contribute to this category of forums by starting this thread.

Many people who have been here as long or longer than me, have seen men post threads looking to meet women. And almost all of the OG's (and the men that I have helped) can attest to the value of my suggestions and guidance to them in their threads. And because of that I invite the OG's to add what suggestions they might have to help you newbies out as well

Trust me, I know what I'm talking about.

f you're in your 40's or older and the girl that writes you is a hot 24 to 28 year old these are things to look for to let you know if she's the one for you:

1. Make sure that she only has one pic. That way you'll know that she's not vain.

2. If the age of the man she's looking for falls between 18 and 99, that at least tells you that age is just a number to her and that she's totally down to earth and wants you for who you are and not what you look like.

3. Women from Ghana are among the most desirable, because being from a poor country, where the internet is pretty much unheard of, it that means that they haven't been tainted by American materialism, like Neiman Marcus and she won't be interested in money.

4. Also, if she's from Ghana and her photo is of a totally awesome white girl, but her profile says that she's black, it just means that she's excited about being on a dating site for the first time and the chances of her being a player are slim to none. Those women are usually the sure bets for a soul mate.

5. Brush up on your command of the English language with women who use the word "structure" when referring to you in their introductory email to you. Generally these are beautiful women who have graduated from the Russian Academy of Science and are absolutely fluent in English to the point of being so detail oriented that they even look at how your body is skeletally organized. Their interested in you for your intelligence.

The plus side: During sex, your body is one big sexual science experiment for her. For men over 60, these women are the most desirable.

For right now, I would like to end my contribution here and leave some room for some of the other OG's to help you out as well

You kill me lol

Hey just to add the girls from south africa Accra Ghana arent always what they seem. You will see they are pretty but guess what they are looking for? You guessed it Money. They pretend to be your sould mate. But they are in it for the money. Youll see if you answer your emails. I believe every one get hit up by them, Just dont be the one who is scammed.

You are soooo wrong Michael.

They are not looking for money.. Trust me, Michael..

If you don't believe me, send me your money and I'll help you decide who to give to.

But I'll tell you what I'm going to do.. I'm going to hook you up bro!!

I haven't done this for a while, but I've got one for you!

Fifi_teng, is one of the hidden, totally hot set ups... What your dreams are made of.. esp. if you like swimming!

You don't have to thank me either. I'm just here to help!!!

I'll throw my two cents in- these women fall in love easily, because they look NOT to the structure, but to the inside, because hey, love is just like that! They have led extremely rough lives, which have built their character- their families have usually been through horrible things, parents are dead, or in for surgery they can't pay for- they are stuck in other countries, terrible- just terrible- thank heavens for understanding westerners, and western union!

And if they need money to come and visit you, because they had no idea that it cost that much, well, how can you possibly fault them? And if you send the money to them and they don't show up, again, how can you fault them...they were probably waylaid on the way home from western union, robbed, and spirited away to some horrible slave camp during the night.

Give til it hurts, guys-

remeber the saying a " a fool and his money are soon departed". I believe in the addadage the dutch treat is the way to be each pays their own.

There are tons of poor, beautiful Russian girls, all with degrees btw, who would be eternally grateful if you got them over here. I would suggest sending three hundred bucks to a select sampling of a dozen or so, that will cover the two week wait while her passport is approved.

If that doesn't work look for a girl who never capitalizes "i", wants a real and perfect love, and works in textiles. She'll be a sure winner.

Trust me. (send $$$)

Free tip...the real ones have the term "4real" tacked on to the end of their username.

I don't have the experience of Cimm who can tell you about all the workings of women and their motives and meanings behind all that they do BUT I can speak a bit about some men and their "need" to "be loved" looking for that "special someone" that will be their "soul mate" who live right here on the soil of North America. So many of them have been hard done by here in America seeking that ONE break in life that will make all the difference and are looking for just an "accepting" woman who will "support" and "understand" them. Common... they need support too. They either have been hit with way too much down and out bad luck OR they are millionaires just looking online for that "special" someone to share it with because real life doesn't present to them the right opportunities like going online can. So don't be sexist or even focus on any particular spot of the world out there if and when the need comes for sharing some $$$. If you feel you are about to strike the pot of love by sending cash - I can provide you with plenty of names in your own back yard... be patriotic and help out your own country folk before adventuring out to change the world!

(Awww... the dream that I could be spared hearing the details of another Canadian/American living in the land of opportunity telling me about the bombardment of bad luck including the @!#$@ social assistant programs that are picking on them too, OR how so many of them know that because they dream of being a millionaire it surely is just around the corner! Ahem... time to wake up... this is online!)

Apparently I have been answering my emails wrong with F*%@! y*& M*@#%@! F*&#@!!! I am thinking this might require confession! LOL

nah FP, you just need a better "addadage"

Girls from Ghana/accra United Kingdom are all scammers,they probably don't even live there!LOL Cim did you fall for that- O my mum is sick? or they stole my pass port? or I'm over here selling jewerlry. Ha HA Ha thats to funny man. Mem aren't going to find love out here, O there might be an exception here and there,but for the most part its a joke. Have a great day!Clearwater

Well, flowerpistol if you are going to start a confession thread than buckle down to being the creator of possibly the biggest forum that hit mingles! Btw... hats off to you for taking the time to answer your emails... I find clicking the delete button a big enough chore! lol

TAP TAP...

HELLO!!

HELLO!

ANYBODY HOME???

" I am thinking this might require confession!"

I'm sorry Pistolero, but you're in the wrong forum for that.. But I think in the next day or so you'll be able find that available to you in the Prop.8 thread.

Ooh I have no intention of starting a confession thread, hell I would never be out of the confessional..LOL As for answering those emails, most of them do get the delete button, however when I am especially ornery, I answer them!( insert evil/smartass grin here)! I love the one I just got telling me my age does not matter and this F@*&#@! had the nerve to cite my age as older than I am.. I wish there was a penal code we could charge people with STUPID in public! Only in my dreams..LOL

Next this is an advice thread for men looking to meet women. Not the other way around.... I believe that you will find a place for that commentary as a sub category of the thread "Ways To Make Sure You WON'T Get A Response To Your Mingles Email".

Now where was I?

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Oh yea, women from Romania....

LMAO Cim! I am particularly sensitive to those who 'got stuck' in the foreign country while 'working'. Poor guys.

If you're living in Baltimore, New York or Boston you don't need to search very far for a former Soviet Sultress. Chances are though that they're already married but might have a cousin that they could fix you up with.

Check out Rasputian's in New York (if you can afford it).

9. You know you're onto a woman with class, if her pic looks like it's out of a magazine. That's a sure sign that she'll be a great house keeper. And if she's from Ghana, Russia or Romania on top of that, you know you've got it made! Those women will usually be waiting for you in the kitchen, naked and subservient.

10. One of the most important pieces of advice is this: if she looks like she's too good to be true, then you know for sure, that it's true! Move quickly on those babes.

Hey,people,I have had the onslaught of Winks,smiles,and friend requests from a few of these babes,they are from Europe,but fate has sent them to Accra,Ghana,where their father is from,only,their picture looks like no relative has ever strayed far from the coast of Finland or Sweden.Move over Nigerian letter,I also got a couple from two gals one day apart,same wording,misspelling,and love,one was Wendycares,steer clear of that one,she is a joke

I had to chec my inbox,The other one is rebecaluv123,her and Wendy are in cahoots I think,what is it with this site,do these women think we are all so lonely that we would jump at any chance of their so called love,Hell,half are probably guys posing as women,think about it!!!

My perfect soul mate is one who cares so much for her ill mother that she spends every moment at her side, thus has no job to make money for the medicine, and is not too proud to be honest enough to express her need for money for her momma's meds.

God, what a woman!! Cimm we would all be blessed to have several of those selfless people in our lives.

Flowerpistol, your self-deprication is so transparent. You don't fool me. I know you only want me for a cabana boy. But I'm no fool. Maybe you should be less selfish and come serve me for a while. Then I may reciprocate. If you're worth it...

For those of you that have read this thread, if you re-read tip #4 and then look up this profile : helena00233 and read it carefully while looking at her pic.

You'll see it right there in in Blue on Turquoise. She's looking for you to be her soul mate.

See, I know what I'm writing about.. Like always...

they are lots of good signs your being conned. like i live in Georgia. but right now i,m in ghana.or if you go to my site i have a picture. [mostly on craigslist]but as a 48 year old man. when i get a letter from someone in there early 20s. i usually write them back and ask them what they want with a 48 year old man. usually get know reply.