Goodbye and Farewell Barb and John
Hunter_Rep (this topic's creator)6/10/2009 10:42:02 PM
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Hunter_Rep (this topic's creator)6/10/2009 10:51:43 PM
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a couple of you know that yesterday my mom and step dad were killed in a car accident on hw 97 in Klamath Falls. the only console i have right now is that they went together peacefully and in no pain at all. the collision with the semi was so great that they broke there necks and died instantly. it has been very hard on me, i lost my dad only a year and a half ago, now i have lost my mother. thanks to Robbi and Cimm who have both called me, i havnt been able to talk with cimm yet but i will very soon. toughest part will be dealing with my 3 year old girl, grandma was her life and she is to young to understand.ahnd she is allready asking for grandma and looking for her.the best way to remember my mom is to continue her support of her favorite charities and to make sure her grand daughters know all about her. i may be in and out of here for awhile, i have alot to do over the next couple weeks, to my friends, i know you will support me and for that me and my family thank you. again thank you to robbi and jules and you to Cimm.
Ron_092 6/10/2009 11:15:57 PM
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My sympathies, Hunter.
I've been blessed in that I haven't lost anyone in my family in a very long time, but I recall well my grandmother's passing. I know its a sad time for you and your family, but I know you'll be strong for your little girl.
Cristobalito 6/10/2009 11:26:32 PM
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Rest peacefully Barb and John...
zannazanna 6/10/2009 11:41:07 PM
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hunter,
mere words cannot convey the sympathy ...just know that we love you more than you know and are holding you closely in our hearts...
by the way...mlady pamela would love to send you a forum response but some asshole has blocked her....
take care hunter...love you very much
Zanna
biker_44 6/11/2009 12:01:27 AM
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all i can say hunter is hugs to you. if you need anything let me know.
adamslt 6/11/2009 12:06:34 AM
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my condolences Hunter,i'm truly sorry for your loss
mystabone 6/11/2009 12:25:22 AM
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Hunter,
I have only talked to you once, and laughed my ass off at your bulletins. I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I too have a three year old who's life is wrapped in Grandma's world and I wouldnt begin to know how to cope with her loss! I wish you only the best and will offer up many prayers for you and your child. It is comforting to know that they were together and peaceful instantly. Take care and give her a hug from Mingles! And yes, you can have a hug too!!
Flowerpistol 6/11/2009 12:32:55 AM
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I have you and your family in my heart and holding and praying that you will get through this very tough time in your life. Your daughter will learn all about her wonderful grandmother through all the beautiful stories you will share with her. My deepest sympathy on your loss..
Gabriela...FP
mlady_pamela 6/11/2009 1:19:20 AM
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Hunter, I just got my profile back functioning (thank goodness) because the most distressing thing to me was reading about your tragedy and not being able to respond. I am so sorry Hunter. There are no words that I can say and so I say nothing but know this... my truest sympathy is with you. I have some experience with phone calls like that and there are no words to describe it. As time goes by I learned that people stay very much alive forever in our heart and mind but the loss is unspeakable.
You know Hunter, may I share one thing relating to your daughter... I was 3 years old when my Papa (grandfather) died... I am 49 years old now and I still remember him... I remember crying and he picked me up and held me in his arms and sat down in a big white wooden Cape Cod style lawn chair. Today I have two Cape Cod style lawn chairs in my garden that I will always have and I sit in them with my grandchildren. Even though your daughter is three... love is something we remember and you will help her which will keep their bond strong. My thoughts are with you and all of your family.
Keerok 6/11/2009 2:27:39 AM
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Sorry, Rep. I know it's hard.
shopstar 6/11/2009 2:50:24 AM
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So Sorry, Rep. Your in my thoughts and prayers. It's going to be hard. Do your best man.
mystttt 6/11/2009 5:16:30 AM
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my thoughts are with you Rep hugzzzzz
Girle_Rose2 6/11/2009 7:05:31 AM
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I am so sorry to hear about your loss Hunter. I lost my mom too. Yesterday was her five year anniversary. What I can tell you is, even though it doesn't get any easier, the pain does dull after awhile.
Hugs to you and yours,
XOXOXOXO
Rose
Girle_Rose2 6/11/2009 7:17:22 AM
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^^ fixing the date on that last post. It was June 9th(date of her death)^^ sorry, I had to say this.. or it would have bothered me.
All my days are mottled together.
tck_beachbum 6/11/2009 7:54:08 AM
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Sorry to hear that news Hunter.
robbi642 6/11/2009 12:26:22 PM
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Jerry, like I told you....if you need anything just call. My thoughts and prayers are with you and yours.........
JoJet 6/11/2009 1:04:27 PM
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So, so sorry to hear about your loss. I lost my Mom when I was 24 and not a day goes by that I do not think of her and miss her. I know you will hold them in your heart and you will be able to share that love with your daughters. Big, HUGE hugs to you Rep.
ManhattanBabe 6/11/2009 2:59:54 PM
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Condolences to you and your family Rep on the loss of you MOm and Stepdad,my thoughts and prays are with you,
Lisa4631 6/11/2009 5:09:26 PM
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My sincerest sympathies to you and your family, Jer. <3
Starfire58 6/11/2009 5:48:58 PM
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Condolences Rep... June 9th was my Mom's 6th anniversary. (((hugs)))
spart 6/11/2009 6:07:32 PM
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My condolences Rep.
swamper40 6/11/2009 11:00:10 PM
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Sorry to hear about your loss Rep,take care my thoughts & prayers are with you and your family...
Chai 6/12/2009 12:12:16 AM
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So deeply sorry for your loss Rep. May our prayers and thoughts help you in this difficult time.
Starfire58 6/12/2009 8:47:11 AM
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frckld1 6/12/2009 9:14:18 PM
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My deepest sympathies Rep.
My heart goes out to you and your family...
veritababe 6/12/2009 9:33:57 PM
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Hunter, my heart, prayers and thoughts goes out to you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss. Robbi is a true gentleman and great friend. I'm very happy to know he's been there to comfort you. **hugs**
stetor66 6/13/2009 10:30:14 AM
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I am very sorry to come back and read about your loss Hunter! My condolences to you!
Aurora_x 6/13/2009 2:41:13 PM
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my condolences and thoughts are with u at this awful time. May they rest in peace xxx
gtr420 6/13/2009 6:21:24 PM
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Sorry for your loss rep, I cant even begin to guess how you must be feeling..
Rollo_Quarters 6/13/2009 7:11:30 PM
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Sorry to hear of your loss. Been offline for awhile and just saw this today.
CaptainCorelli 6/13/2009 7:35:48 PM
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Rep, very sorry to hear of your loss. I hope you are able to get through this alright. As per your daughter, all you can do is look at this way...it would have been nice for her to be able to know her grandmother better, but the truth is that if this would have happened 3 or 4 or 5 years from now, the impact would be much worse on your daughter. Right now she just doesn't understand what has happened, and that's not as bad as it sounds. If she HAD had a few more years to mature and get to know her grandmother better, this may have been much more devastating to her. Thank God they didn't have to suffer. We'll keep you in our prayers.
Hunter_Rep (this topic's creator)6/13/2009 9:28:16 PM
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first off i want to thank every one for there thoughts and prayers. ya'll know i am not a religious man but my parents were so i know they would appreciate it.Captain, i hear what yer saying and yer right, it would have been worse. my wife is still having a hard time, she has had a few bad dreams. i still hurt a little but have gotten used to the idea that there not here anymore. i know it will take time but i am doing much better.
yesterday was a tough day, dealing with family so i took the advice my mom always gave me when i got frustrated with people, she would always tell me to go get my gun and go to my shooting range up in the woods and shoot. and it helped alot.momma knew me. i have talked with Cimm and Robbi both on the phone wich helped as well.
again thank you all and dont worry, i aint gona let that prick adoni get to me, he aint worth it. although my mom probably woulda told me to use him as target practice.
WebcamMostie 6/13/2009 11:17:53 PM
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hunter, hugs to you, and I'm so sorry for your loss-
hotfootballer 6/14/2009 5:31:12 AM
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i am sorry for your loss Hunter, really.
i lost my father and little sister in 2002 and 2000 respectively, so i know how you feel
beckyiv42000 6/15/2009 1:21:13 PM
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Reppers.. I just saw this today... I dont come here too much anymore.. life has a way of keeping me busy lately...Dearest one.. I know the pain you are feeling and the frustrations you have had dealing with others..I have lost too many myself...it will pass.. it might take a while but it will pass.. my only advice is to NOT hold in your emotions...they will only eat at you..and in turn sour your life for your daughters... cry... be a MAN and cry ...and get all the hurt out..it leaves a place for the happy memories to abide..I wish I could be there to give ya a big hug and cry with you.. much love and huggs and if you need anything you know how to get a hold of me.. Becky
Hunter_Rep (this topic's creator)6/15/2009 9:45:45 PM
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memorial services were to day for my mom and John. a whole lot of people showed up, just went to show how many friends they had. all went fairly well. alot of tears shed but that was to be expected. once again thank you all for yer heart felt thoughts. got a few things left to still deal with before i get back to work. gotta pay the bills some how. and it is very nice to see my friends come to my defense against a certain little prick. i am not gona play his game though.
FrankenBiff 6/16/2009 4:21:37 PM
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I'm sorry to hear about your loss, Hunter. Please accept my condolences to you and your loved ones.
Hunter_Rep (this topic's creator)6/17/2009 1:49:14 AM
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we all met with the lawyer today who will handling the probate for us, i was hoping for a smooth process, and most of it went ok but i did wind up having harsh words with one of my step brothers so thanks to that i have had a very bad day. been stressed real bad. cant take much more of this. there gona let us continue to live here tell we have the money to move, lawyer is hoping to have a good chunk of money for all of us in 2 or 3 months. but i am still scared about what i am going to do about my family if we dont have the money to move in three months. i just want this all over with, i cant handle any more stress.
Cristobalito 6/17/2009 4:12:42 AM
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ahhhhh the bad and sad part -
probate and people showing their true colors
I'm just as sorry you have to go through this part reppers - but while in the grieving process, you'll see a wide variety of people suffering with their grief who simply don't think 'right' or rationally
if "they" are going to make people suffer through probate - you have no choice but to arm yourself with an attorney as well
it's a shame people have to act that way - even if they are grief-stricken as well...
Cristobalito 6/17/2009 4:15:15 AM
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- in other words my friend....
let attornies worry about the things that are giving you stress - you have more important things to do (your family, hunting, fishing, etc)
Hunter_Rep (this topic's creator)6/18/2009 1:31:57 AM
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there was song my cousin wanted played at the memorial service for my mom called Sissy's Song by Alan Jackson. i have never heard the song before but it is a beautiful song and now it will always be my moms song.
Hunter_Rep (this topic's creator)6/18/2009 1:38:45 AM
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one condolence i do have is the weekend before my mom passed away me and my wife took the kids camping with some friends of ours. while at the lake i was able to catch some really good cat fish. my mom loved cat fish but hadn't had it in a long time. so the Monday night before she passed i cooked the cat fish for me and her. so i know she really enjoyed her last dinner.
robbi642 6/18/2009 10:18:55 AM
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Good choice of songs Hunter.......very touching and appropriate. And I'm glad your last time together was a good one. So often we take our time with others for granted and that's why we should appreciate the time we have. It's uncertain what tomorrow will bring. I'm happy for you that you have good memories.
swtsmile5 6/18/2009 12:12:28 PM
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Hunter,,
Truly sorry for the sudden loss of your mom and step-dad, Time does dull the pain, but your memories will live on forever and those happy memories are the ones you will share with your daughter so that she may enjoy the same memories. God Bless you and your family.
Lisa
madness 6/18/2009 4:51:51 PM
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Hunter, my heart goes out to you an your family. ((hugs)) for you an yours! sorry im just reading this now..
Hunter_Rep (this topic's creator)6/24/2009 2:35:58 AM
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i love my parents, i really do, but some how i get the feeling that where ever they are, they are laughing there ass's off at me. over the last few days of cleaning out the garage, storage sheds, studio above the garage and the house, i have realized my parents were the biggest pack rats in the world. i have already taken a truck load of stuff to the recyclers, and now i am gona have to take a truck load to the good will and a trailer ans truck load of garbage to the dumb. i honestly dont think they threw anything away.
robbi642 6/25/2009 1:05:36 AM
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It's like it's pay back for cleaning up after you kids all their lives.......LOL...Parents DO get the last laugh.......
MissEmerald 6/28/2009 12:54:59 AM
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Hey Wrangler...I'm so sorry to hear of your loss!! We've been here a long time together and well, we've shared in a lot of crappy stuff but death tops the list (I know...total underestimation!) Anyway, I'm rambling but I'm real sorry and I hope that your pain eases into peace real soon! xo Ann Marie
Hunter_Rep (this topic's creator)6/28/2009 3:44:09 AM
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thank you MissE, and i cant believe you still know my original name. aint seen that in years. ii am doing better and so is the wife. biggest problem right now is the lack of help from the rest of the kids, they left me to deal with the estate. greedy bastards is all they are.
KarenJ2 6/28/2009 9:47:01 AM
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I don't know you Hunter. But none the less, Im truely sorry for your loss. Hope you and your family find peace.
MissEmerald 6/29/2009 12:15:51 AM
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Sorry to hear that, Wrang....and you're always going to be Wrangler_b to me!
Hunter_Rep (this topic's creator)6/29/2009 12:31:13 AM
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thank you Karen. just seeing that name brings back so many memories MissE. this place was way so different back then. and whats really interesting, back in 98 when i joined here, it was actually my mom who started my profile, she wanted me to find some one. it took 7 years but i finally did and my mom got to see her two beautiful grand daughters.
OneBabyDoll 7/1/2009 1:06:53 PM
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Reppers...I'm SO sorry to see this. My heart goes out to you and I can only hope that time will heal. I'm so sorry for your loss and that I am just reading this now.
Take care and remember your Mom would be proud of you.
Mandy
Hunter_Rep (this topic's creator)7/2/2009 12:06:09 AM
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thank you mandy
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