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I think many of the older guys are just looking for some young firm coochie to stick their dick in (to do them doggy, get blowjobs, cornhole, have sex on demand, etc.) for a purely sexual relationship.
You wouldn't be interested in man with such a superficial attitude anyhow, right?
If he dates the 30 year old then he is an idiot and deserves the 30 year old because he hasn't learned a thing from his "other" divorce(s) - the statistics are good that the 30 year old has one thing on her mind... and it aint sex from a 60 yr old!
It's that new ShamWow promotion, isn't it?
Date them both... find out if they have sisters too. 
The possibilities are endless.
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Pamela - you appear to be a really fine piece of hittable tail for 49 (I'm feeling full of compliments today). If you lived closer I'd probably be 'up' for it. As it is... get that deck finished before you're 60, and invite the guys that live close over some night for a toga party.
FOREVER MAY THEY BE ON THE HUNT....!!!
Not sure, Pam. I do know lots of guys well into their sixties though that can still do 12 ounce curls for days at a time and not get tired. Does that count? lol
I know some really, really beautiful people over the age of 60, their beauty never seems to 'fade'.
Many people assume that a woman isn't as "into" it once they get into their 60's (I know, I know. . . its a myth). But men in their 60's are accepted as being still virile. Those men who are still looking to be active will, if they buy into that myth, go looking for younger partners.
Its up to you to make sure that you send the message that you are still vital and capable of participating in a healthy and rewarding relationship. If your picture does you justice, you are an attractive lady and I have no doubt that you have much to offer. . . so start advertising it!
And don't be too put-off by the tongue-in-cheek responses you often get here on these forums. Seldom are they serious and most often it is a way of saying "we agree with you."
pamela i disagree on the "it's an idiot of a man who thinks someone half his age is interested in him for sex" because 18-19 year olds have been interested in me sexually,who know im not well off financially,and just work as a slave in the oilfield.
sounds like this is going in the older vs. younger direction,...ive pondered this topic alot...pros and cons...ive no definative answers ...just my own experience.
its alot easier it seems to have a superficial relationship with younger women,but regardless of the saying that age is just a number,ive noticed absolute differences that are consistent...younger women in my experience are extremely adoring,which is flattering to a man...younger women also have more free time to spend with a man due to not having kids yet,younger women have usually not become hardened and bitter towards men yet,so there is often a sweetness that goes with the naivete.
older women in my experience are much bolder sexually,comfortable in their own skin,practical,hospitable,theyve made enough of the mistakes of youth that theyve aquired some wisdom,and there is no substitute for time and experience when it comes to wisdom...provided of course one learns from their mistakes.
older women that have been treated badly sometimes appreciate a man who treats them well,one who is younger and been spoiled all her life is often a picture of ingratitude,
older women have learned to be considerate of others,raised children,so there likely to be less focused on themselves all the time,less materialistic,....but more opinionated and set in their ways,responsible with money,dont have to worry about teaching older women like you would a younger woman...but you couldnt teach an older woman if you wanted to because shes so set in her ways,lol
the truth is...for some reason...i dont know why...ive found women my own age intimidating,...i think it is because im very conscious of societies view and definition of success,and i never got on board with it...and a woman my own age will usually be much better off financially than i,and work indoors at a career she is very stable in,and attached to,and gone much further than i...my superior in everyway(always people say oh that doesnt matter at all,i say hogwash... it does if a man wants his lady to respect him...money matters)...a younger woman however would see me as having more to offer in that regard...at least until she finishes college and starts making more money than me a few years later,id rather hand the checkbook over to a woman with experience than one who hasnt made all the typical mistakes already,but even the younger women have more experience with the checkbook and paperwork than i do ,lol...though its easier to find ones intellectual equal if one goes older women than younger.
ive said alot of words here without really saying anything i guess...i dont know...i like them all
I believe older women should ask a guy out to lunch (or dinner), then wink and say, "Okay, I'll see you then... and I'll bring the Viagra for your dessert...".
(Bonnie... I think Pamela was making fun of you and now she's trying to backtrack... )
Women don't start their sexual prime until they are 35 and it goes up from there.
So actually Older women, younger men and younger women, older men makes alot of sexual sense.
And I'll agree that sex is great, but not a good foundation for any relationship unless you're going into to it as a SugarDaddy/SugarMom or doing the "Play for Pay" thing. Which basically is the same thing.
"My age?" Actually I've always faired better if the age is 5 years below or over mine. Not exactly certain why. I think it has more to do with conflicting contemporary ideas. This has been true since I was 20.
I'm not a member of Nova's "Down Swingdom" group yet, but eventually it probably will happen. If that does then I'll probably have to hire Tck as my "stunt double".
You appear to be consumed with not only your age, but the ages of everyone else too.
Forget about age, have fun, go after what you want... LIVE...
Join a gym, travel, attend functions, be a volunteer... LIVE...!
P.s. Rollo you are a very sexy man and I doubt you would need tck as a stand in.
1. How often does the husband honor his blood family over his own wife?
2. Such is a recipe for disaster!
3. In-law problems are often the result of a husband who allows his mother and father to interfere in his relationship with his wife.
Thou shalt frequently tell thy wife how important & valuable she is to thee. (Phil 2:3; Prov 31:10-11)
Thou shalt hold thy wife's love by the same means that thou won it. (SOS 5:10-16)
1. Men persue their future bride with doting ceaseless attention. Once married the husband views marriage as a goal accomplished an on to other of life's challenges. He then gives his ceaseless doting attention to the job, the boys or anything but his wife. She on the other hand viewed marriage not as a goal met, but as the beginning of a relationship. She viewed his doting attention as a down payment of attentions to come. He viewed it as a means to merely get her to say "I DO".
2. This guy really WON the love of his future wife. He looked good because he groomed his appearance for her. He smelled good, because he regularly bathed and gargled. And he spoke words of "sweetness" to his love. But give many husbands a few years of marriage and they let their appearance and hygiene slip. But worst of all the sweetness towards their wife is gone. The wife proclaims to her friends, "Did he ever change after we said 'I do'!" Guys, if you want the nights to be hot, you best start warming up your wife in the day with words of kindness.
3. Buy your wife flowers on a regular basis.
Thou shalt actively establish family discipline with thy wife's help. (2 Timothy 3:15; Ephesians 6:4; Deuteronomy 6:6-9)
1. Few would argue that the wife is the primary parent involved in the daily task of interacting with the children. But God has placed the father as the head of the household and that means that you must work hard along side of your wife in establishing family discipline. Many fathers leave the majority of the work of raising the kids up to the wife. In child custody cases, the mother almost always get control of the kids, not because she is a better parent, but because she is the one who has been most involved with them. God commands fathers in Ephesians 6:4 "And, fathers, do not provoke your children to anger; but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord." You must be directly involved with your children. And then be careful not to "provoke" them to anger, because you have not really taken the time to understand exactly what happened and why. Some fathers alienate their children because they hastily dish out too harsh a punishment because they want to get back to their TV show or reading the paper. To these husbands, children are an interruption imposed upon him by the wife. Sad indeed.
2. Train up a child in the way he should go, even when he is old he will not depart from it. Prov 22:6
3. POEM: "PLEASE, DADDY, WON'T YOU GO?"
o A little girl's bright shining eyes with face aglow,
o Says: "Daddy, It's time for church-Let's Go!
o They teach us there of Jesus' love, of how he died for all,
o Upon the cruel cross to save those who on Him will call."
o "Oh, no," said Daddy, "Not today. I've worked hard all week,
o And I must have one day of rest; and I'm going to the creek.
o For there I can relax and rest; and fishing is fine they say.
o So run along; don't bother me, we'll go to church some day."
o Well months and years have passed away,
o but Daddy hears that plea no more;
o "Let's go to Bible school." Those childhood days are over.
o And Daddy's grown old, life's almost through,
o He finds time to go to church, but what does daughter do?
o She says: "Oh Daddy, not today-I stayed up half the night;
o I know you know that church can wait...you understand my plight!
o Then Daddy lifts a trembling hand to brush away the tears,
o As again he hears the pleading voice, distinctly through the years.
o He sees a small girl's shining face upturned, with eyes aglow,
o As she says, "It's time for Bible school; please,
o Daddy, won't you go?"
o (Author Unknown)
Thou shalt remember to do all the little things for thy wife when you say you will. (Mt 5:37)
1. Jesus instructs all Christians, "let your statement be, 'Yes, yes' or 'No, no' and anything beyond these is of evil." Mt 5:37. Husbands, when you say you will do something for your wife, have the consideration to do it! Why should she justifiably nag you?
2. Your wife shouldn't have to get you to sign some binding oath to get you to make the bed, take out the garbage or take her out to dinner as you agreed. By doing what you say you will, you earn her trust in other areas.
3. Ever wonder why your wife reacts is a funny way?
Wife's Reaction
Husband's Action
When the wife feels insecure.
The husband is not being a spiritual leader.
When the wife takes matters into her own hands and assumes the leadership role.
The husband has allowed problems to continue and even get worse.
When the children rebel, the wife blames her husband.
The husband has not supported his wife in disciplining the children.
When the wife becomes resentful of financial pressures.
The husband has been spending extra money on things he enjoys.
When the wife feels inferior and jealous.
The husband praises or admires other women.
When the wife feels unable to totally give herself (body, soul and spirit) to her husband.
The husband only verbalizes his love when he wants a physical relationship.
When the wife feels frustration from not knowing how to please her husband.
The husband doesn't praise her for specific things.
When the wife turns to others who will listen to her true feelings.
The husband doesn't make the time to listen to his wife.
When the wife feels unprotected.
The husband has not been alert to the dangers which his wife faces.
When the wife feels inadequate in trying to meet her husband's physical needs.
The husband has been lusting after other women.
When a wife mentally gives up and loses all hope
The husband is prideful, never in the wrong, loses his temper to stay in control and never asks for forgiveness.
Keep thine eyes on thy own wife, not thy neighbors. (Prov 5:15-20; Job 31:1; Jer 5:8)
1. The Proverbs writer says it this way, "Drink water from your own cistern, And fresh water from your own well... Let her breasts satisfy you at all times; Be exhilarated always with her love." Prov 5:15-20
2. The ultimate sacrifice that a woman makes in child bearing is her figure. And the media is filled with 17 year old models who are not yet graduated high school and never done a hard days work in their life!
3. Job was wise when he said, "I Have made a covenant with my eyes; How then could I gaze at a virgin?"
4. Job 31:1 But we find that for many, the words of Jeremiah apply, "They were well-fed lusty horses, Each one neighing after his neighbor's wife." Jer 5:8
Thou shalt make every effort to see things from thy wife's point of view. (Gen 21:12)
1. Abraham is a man whose wife actually called him "lord". Sarah had an insight on a personal family matter and Abraham felt that she was wrong. "But God said to Abraham, "Do not be distressed because of the lad and your maid; whatever Sarah tells you, listen to her" Gen 21:12. Did you catch that? God told Abraham to obey his wife! He had not taken the time to see things from her point of view. Husbands and wives often live and think in different worlds. A wise husband will "listen" to his wife before God steps in and forces him to. Foolish husbands are arrogant "power-tripper
it was weird for me to talk to girls on a singles site that only lived 15-30 minutes away from me,after the date,i kind of worried i was kissing my cousin
Love Awaits you.
