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Bonnie47 (this topic's creator)
8/8/2009 10:20:14 PM
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Bonnie47 (this topic's creator)
8/8/2009 10:30:30 PM
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I am new to this site and already, same thing, age discrimanation. If a woman is over 60, she is finished as far as the men her own age are concerned. I don't want to play around with younger men, I don't want to settle for a much older man just to have a legitament standing, I want love in my life again. I want a new group, a forum where We can encourage one another. Some thoughts would be appreciated.
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mysticct
8/13/2009 11:14:48 AM
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So go to groups and make a group. fairly simple to do.
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rickster
8/13/2009 12:18:49 PM
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Want unconditional love? What love in your life again? May I suggest you buy a puppy...
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earthlady
8/14/2009 12:24:57 PM
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Hi Bonny47,

Is it alright if I'm nearly 60?

I just want to say you're nowhere near finished girl, looking good.

I'm not gay either, just we girls need to stand together and its true what you say

about older guys wanting younger chicks, hey you cant blame them. Best advice I can

give is go for friendship, theres nothing better, and you never know what might happensmile

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Bonnie47 (this topic's creator)
8/14/2009 1:31:56 PM
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well Rickster, here you are again! I have two dogs, chihuahuas. I love them and yes they are a lot of company. Who are you, where do you come from? I couln't find your profile.
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Bonnie47 (this topic's creator)
8/14/2009 3:06:19 PM
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Earthlady, you seem to have it together. I could maybe settle for friendship, but any man I have been alone with has wanted a sex. I am not promiscuous, so that is not possible. I save sex for marriage and that is just the way it will be. I guess I live in the wrong world where moral values are not respected. Bonnie

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mlady_pamela
8/14/2009 3:54:47 PM
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Bonnie, there are men who will have high morals and values as you do. They may or may not be online looking. I have met men who have high morals and values online but they cannot find entertainment in a lot of the things that are spoken or acted out in online sites. They come and they leave. I think there are sites out there that are Christian based or religously based that may attract an audience that you are describing. Saying that, I have met men like that here too. I think what you are doing is the way to go - by posting and letting others see you and hear what you think etc. Someone who is feeling the same thing as you may read it and end up contacting you??? Don't limit yourself to this site though Bonnie - and for sure, first find friends who are online that make you laugh to help pass a bit of the lonliness by and who knows what is around the corner.

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tck_beachbum
8/15/2009 9:38:54 AM
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"I save sex for marriage and that is just the way it will be. I guess I live in the wrong world where moral values are not respected."

You are completely 'full of yourself' if you feel moral values are not respected simply because someone's moral values don't agree with YOUR moral values.

It is painfully clear to me WHY you are single and in search of male companionship - you have a closed mind. After talking with you for 5 minutes a man probably has flashbacks of conversations with his grandmother.

Relationships combine the values, opinions, morals, and desires of two (2) people. When one person 'dictates' what will be in a relationship they will all too often have a relationship with only themselves.

You don't live in the wrong world where morals aren't respected Bonnie, you simply live in your own world and you aren't going to be open-minded enough let anyone in to share it with you. wink

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adamslt
8/15/2009 10:16:36 AM
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no,no,no tck...its called standards,and bonnie shouldnt lower her standards for anyone,none of this wishy washy lowering values and standards to settle for or accomodate a person with values that they just made up or are convenient.

no sense at all in losing oneself in order to appease others,to hell with that,i can have friends that have different,or no values,but id never ever consider taking some relativistic your values my values,its all good,ts all meaningless attitude,it doesnt work if someone has real values.

i have 1 big dealbreaker for me,i wont get serious with a woman that drinks,period,i dont care if it is only twice a year,or once a year,i wont do it,i have my reasonns,and i wont lower that standard for anyone,ill die alone before i do,and im ok with that,id rather die alone with my self respect than lower standards for someone else,on casual dates however,i have no problem buying a girl a drink,or buying a drink for friends at lunch,but ill never,ever get serious with a woman that drinks,were all single here,no sense in telling people why they are single,its kind of like trying to take a splinter out of someone elses eye when there is a log in our own.good job bonnie,you go girl!

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Girle_Rose2
8/15/2009 10:19:07 AM
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Teeky.. WOW, tell us how you REALLY feel, don't bottle it up anymore. grin

While I don't save sex for marriage(because I would still be a virgin), I DO wait until I have found something meaningful to give myself to. If that makes sense.

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adamslt
8/15/2009 11:40:10 AM
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im sort of a hypocrite now i guess,my values are sex is for marriage,but i dont live by it,im divorced,so my actions and values do not go together,no way would i wait until marriage now,or marry a woman because i had sex with her and trying to save her reputation,been there done that,but i will never ever say that the way i live now is right,or to be emulated by anyone,i freely admit that i live in contrast to my values since my divorce,if i was to ever have a serious long term relationship again,(i kind of like being a bachelor now though) she would have to have the same values,ill give and take,compromise on anything else thouhg,whats for supper,where we go,what we do,about anything,but if we dont have the same basic core values in principle at least,then i couldnt see it working,because i know what i believe,why i believe it,and i wont have someone else trying to undermine that with my daughter,the divorce is bad enouhg for her,im training my daughter in the same basic principles and traditions that have been folllowed for thousands of years,opinions however are a different matter,and i hope ive taught her to be open minded in regards to cultural differences,etc.,learning from those you disagree with,..but when someone takes seriously the traditions that have been handed down to them for thousands of years,its not a matter of "my" values,just keeping to the traditions as theyve been passed on,and finding another,of whom there are many,who follow the same traditions rather than whatever modern political correctness guruus hand down from on high.

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tck_beachbum
8/15/2009 11:50:42 AM
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And so then if I don't agree with you then... "I guess I live in the wrong world where moral values are not respected."

Just because we don't agree does not mean moral values aren't respected.

That's bullshit and I'll call you on it every time. wink

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adamslt
8/15/2009 12:03:07 PM
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yes girlie it makes sense,i know what you mean,but youve never attacked religous people for their beliefs either,or come off as superior.

its a different matter when you have religous nuts who are obnoxious coming in like clearwater,im5,yellow,or whatever who come in spouting at everyone,holier than thou etc,those kind of people piss me off too,because i dont want to be in the same category with them,those kind of people are an embarrassment to those who are religous,making people think we are all backwards,stupid,closedminded,judgemental,etc.,...girlie remember when you narrated while clearwater aka yellow masturbated on cam in chat?

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adamslt
8/15/2009 12:12:16 PM
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tck..the way i interpreted bonnie,was that her values werent respected,in regards as sex for marriage only,by men who were going after her,like the fireman 10 years younger who wanted a discreet sexual relationship with her and who knows who else,i dont think he had any values except...me first,i doubt he proposed a different or new set of values,i think he just wanted to get his rocks off at her expense,regardless of what it would do to her consciense,or how she was doing in any other way.
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Cristobalito
8/15/2009 2:51:43 PM
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how about that tck guy...

now let's all be honest -

there's not a SINGLE PERSON IN MINGLES that didn't think of tck last week when that internet whacko in Pittsburgh (near where tck lives) went to the gym and opened fire on all those women who had shunned him since 1984...

(God rest their souls and comfort their families - and all those effected)

he talks a good story, but for those who have been around since before he went off the deep end HERE (in mingles) - that guy in pittsburgh is the same age and EVERYTHING as our little tck'boy

'fess up pholks - ALL those minglers that have known tck for the past 10 years ALL checked the boards here to see if tck posted or if it was IN FACT him...

(so sad that someone could be that way - both tck and the man who took so many lives along with his own)

but enough about ole'ickie-tckie; welcome to the REAL "Mingles" Bonnie - every now and then the ones the live in mingles 24/7 (married or single) show their TRUE colors!

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ManhattanBabe
8/15/2009 3:20:50 PM
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Bonnie first you shouldnt limit yourself to just a over sixty group,friendship holds no age, friends in mingles come in all ages, and there are a great many kind and loving people on this site. Secondly you are quite harsh about you live in a wrong world where morals are not respected. Yes some people do have morals and some people dont, but to sit there and judge the world, is quite ridiculous. just because some people dont agree with your view on waiting for marriage to have sex, dosent damn them to a life of hell, or make them morally wrong. It is for each person to decide what is right for them to do and what makes them happy. But get yourslef out there and socialize, you never know who will come your way with the sames morals you have. Good Luck

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tck_beachbum
8/15/2009 3:26:37 PM
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Good to see someone agrees with me, lol. wink

I didn't want to be condemned to a moral-less afterlife in hell. smile

Different strokes for different folks... pick your partners carefully.

And like Manny said... good luck...!

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earthlady
8/17/2009 3:49:02 AM
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well said adamsslt and man_babe, and whats wrong with being a virgin anyway?

Wish I was, would have lots more (gents?) after me!!!!

but as good ole beachbum says (and never thought I'd ever agree with him!!)

Different strokes for different folks.

Whatever you do dont lower your own standards, only brings you down in the end. smile

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Bonnie47 (this topic's creator)
8/19/2009 3:21:28 PM
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As I said before, I am new to the forums. I am enjoying reading everyones' comments on all the topics, not just what I brought up. I am paying for the Marriageminded site and am having no interest shown. I'm on Singlesnet.com and getting lots of winks but they won't become paying members so as to communicate. One man did join just because I winked back at him. I'll get his response tonight. He is only 75 miles away. He is 63 and seems nice.
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tck_beachbum
8/19/2009 3:44:14 PM
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Bonnie - join in the fun here, post in the forums, drop by the chat room.

Get to know people, let them get to know you.

There's a Mingles Las Vegas get together this winter.

Chat, post, have FUN... smile

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rickster
8/19/2009 4:04:34 PM
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