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Mingles (this topic's creator)
10/4/2009 8:05:16 PM
Posts: 347
Member since 9/1/1998
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Mingles (this topic's creator)
10/4/2009 8:05:32 PM
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Let me know! Thanks.
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tck_beachbum
10/4/2009 8:10:00 PM
Posts: 15103
Member since 7/5/2002
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I love the video chat feature.

And the group of people/members we have right now are fantastic!

Thanks for a great site, keep up the good work. wink

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Ron_092
10/4/2009 8:23:35 PM
Posts: 950
Member since 5/17/2005
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I love this site. Good people, forums and chat make this much more than a "singles" site.

On the down side, when someone "PM's" me, I have no way of knowing who the person is before I accept the PM request.

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Luvs_to_ride
10/4/2009 8:42:10 PM
Posts: 2
Member since 10/4/2009 5:18:01 PM
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Just got here....and so far so good!

Thanks!!

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mlady_pamela
10/4/2009 8:51:05 PM
Posts: 909
Member since 1/21/2009 10:15:58 PM
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1 - A spell checker in the forums would be an added bonus! lol

2 - Allowing more than 20 one chat room at one time would be good too - maybe 25 or 30?

3 - Adding another person to the docking feature

4 - Is it possible to add a feature to stop someone from viewing ones camera without having to block them? There are times I would rather not have someone viewing my cam but I still want to be able to see all the comments being made so I can follow the coversations.

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tck_beachbum
10/4/2009 8:57:13 PM
Posts: 15103
Member since 7/5/2002
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A good idea would be for the site to charge people $1.00 to view Pamela's cam. wink
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mysticct
10/4/2009 9:13:19 PM
Posts: 459
Member since 5/23/2002
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A limit on the number of threads in the forums a person can start per week would be nice.
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schlomo1
10/4/2009 10:00:22 PM
Posts: 100
Member since 12/31/2004
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Having me on automatic block
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Fuzzy21
10/5/2009 1:03:14 AM
Posts: 14
Member since 5/1/2009 2:31:42 PM
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I would pay 1.00 to view Pam's cam....
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pita_oh_no
10/5/2009 6:49:08 AM
Posts: 23
Member since 2/13/2009 2:03:54 PM
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I love the cams and mics. And hey......the people aren't bad either.....lol
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Keerok
10/5/2009 9:05:12 AM
Posts: 5195
Member since 10/1/2000
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I put myself offline to avoid dealing with the PM issue. It would be nice to know who's there.

Scalable fonts in chat would be wonderful.

It would be nice to be able to find old threads somehow without going through all those pages of threads.

But in the end, I think it's very usable just as it is.. smile

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mysticct
10/5/2009 10:06:31 AM
Posts: 459
Member since 5/23/2002
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Checking into a few of the more obnoxious ads might help. there is a new google one that blows up the browser font and the ad takes up more than half of the chat page. There are also quite a few ads that cause my antivirus to give me notifications/
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Cristobalito
10/5/2009 11:03:08 AM
Posts: 11934
Member since 12/13/2001
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the married people complain too much
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homeatlast48
10/5/2009 11:06:22 AM
Posts: 222
Member since 10/1/2009 5:57:07 PM
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i dislike people on mingle who hide there bald head under a hat.
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shopstar
10/5/2009 2:31:26 PM
Posts: 2116
Member since 8/6/2008 12:49:03 AM
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.....people married? on this site?.....
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homeatlast48
10/5/2009 2:34:45 PM
Posts: 222
Member since 10/1/2009 5:57:07 PM
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i dislike rednecks. nascar. people people named tck_beachbum an spart and webcam sluts.
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pita_oh_no
10/5/2009 2:45:05 PM
Posts: 23
Member since 2/13/2009 2:03:54 PM
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Wow guess I'm not on your top 10 list then. I'm a major redneck, LOVE nascar, like tck and spart.....and have been known to be a webcam slut. How do ya like me now???? lol
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homeatlast48
10/5/2009 2:47:21 PM
Posts: 222
Member since 10/1/2009 5:57:07 PM
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probably not i don't like overweight American women. change that i just don't like fat people.
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SuperBubba
10/5/2009 2:54:26 PM
Posts: 223
Member since 9/26/2007 11:38:31 PM
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The IM feature is goofed up. When you are typing in the block it knocks you out when the other person sends a message. Just annoying is all
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spart
10/5/2009 2:55:17 PM
Posts: 2308
Member since 6/24/2001
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I like it that you are allowing 48 to stay on the site, despite the possibility that he is really 14 years old. He is one of the funniest minglers in a long time. We need more humor and laughs around here. He's funny looking too.
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SuperBubba
10/5/2009 2:55:21 PM
Posts: 223
Member since 9/26/2007 11:38:31 PM
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One more thing...

There are LOTS of fake profiles. I wonder if there is any way of verifying profiles?

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homeatlast48
10/5/2009 2:55:32 PM
Posts: 222
Member since 10/1/2009 5:57:07 PM
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how did your college football team do this weekend .
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Flowerpistol
10/5/2009 3:06:56 PM
Posts: 830
Member since 1/13/2008 12:30:33 AM
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Having you actually answer my email I sent you 0n 8-28 and then on 9-15!
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homeatlast48
10/5/2009 3:09:05 PM
Posts: 222
Member since 10/1/2009 5:57:07 PM
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hey sparts you every going to grow. you midget i may be dumb but your a midget.
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shopstar
10/5/2009 3:12:24 PM
Posts: 2116
Member since 8/6/2008 12:49:03 AM
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What's not to Like!!!!!!^^^^^^^FP (be quiet Robbie)
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gtr420
10/5/2009 5:18:14 PM
Posts: 522
Member since 10/6/2001
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I like mingles, been a member for years. What I do not like is the recent USA bashing by a couple of folks in these forums.... I will leave it to you to look them over and deal with the instigators.
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Hunter_Rep
10/5/2009 11:19:13 PM
Posts: 8833
Member since 11/27/1998
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time to ban certain ISP's from pedro and this complete troll 48
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robbi642
10/6/2009 12:38:20 AM
Posts: 12350
Member since 4/6/2000
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^ Being Quiet........lol
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knoxlady
10/6/2009 6:51:42 AM
Posts: 23
Member since 3/24/2009 1:39:41 PM
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More font colors and new smilies in the chat room would be great.

Additional docking space and to know when minglers are online in the friends list.

Thanks for the great site!!!

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countyman
10/6/2009 8:22:25 AM
Posts: 3
Member since 11/28/2004
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good place to have fun like the cams and music great people. and spell check would help hehehehe
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homeatlast48
10/6/2009 10:28:09 AM
Posts: 222
Member since 10/1/2009 5:57:07 PM
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hunter you fatass.
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Keerok
10/6/2009 11:29:16 AM
Posts: 5195
Member since 10/1/2000
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Both Firefox and Internet explorer have spell check addons...

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adamslt
10/6/2009 9:42:48 PM
Posts: 389
Member since 12/6/2008 4:41:50 PM
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well...mr.mingles,i know there is such a thing as freedom of speech,and all that hogwash,but...you know how small buisinesses often have a sign saying "we refuse the right to refuse service",and similiar things,i really cant think of any establishment

that would tolerate someone coming in just to harrass others,whose only purpose was to bring mayhem,disruption,and take away from the general goodtime had by all,because it would be bad for buisiness,and the people wouldnt keep coming around,its one thing for regulars who are generally decent to others to have disagreements with one another on occasion,but...when you have what basicly amounts to a little mingles terrorist,who is only intent on disrupting the site for everyone...doggone it we cant even go throuhg the dang forums anymore,and when we do..the mood has changed,instead of smiles and friendliness,we have to come prepared for a hostile environment...are you going to do something about it or what? what do you do about people who only come on here to disrupt the site?

but...otherwise..i really like the site,think your doing a really good job at it,thanks,i enjoy it

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jumpnjive
10/6/2009 10:18:46 PM
Posts: 1255
Member since 11/11/1999
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well lets see,, I've been here 11 years or so and I like warm fuzzy bunny slippers and riding down the beach on my unicycle in a loin cloth banging metal pots together at 3:00 AM and,,,,, O'h neva mind...........Its all good !!! PS, I should get a lifetime FREE GOLD MEMBERSHIP for being here so long...jes sayin
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jumpnjive
10/6/2009 10:22:23 PM
Posts: 1255
Member since 11/11/1999
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I was here back when there were no pics or web cams and you had to pic a toon that matched what you looked like. I've been here so long I remember back when the air was clean and sex was considered dirty. I think Nixon was president.
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Luvs_to_ride
10/6/2009 11:24:20 PM
Posts: 2
Member since 10/4/2009 5:18:01 PM
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Hey - it would be nice if when you viewed a profile, it would show the "last login" date or something similar; otherwise, it's kind of hard to know who's active on the site.

Thank you!

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Hunter_Rep
10/7/2009 1:50:47 AM
Posts: 8833
Member since 11/27/1998
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Man do i remember those days Jump, when chat was fun and so was the good clean arguments in the forums. Just think, in just over a month i will have my 11th anniversary in this place. I am and OG.
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xclr8n
10/7/2009 2:55:19 AM
Posts: 13
Member since 9/23/2009 9:19:18 PM
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A time and date stamp on peoples profiles too indicate when they were last signed into mingles and actively using the site.

Like you said Pamela of more people in each respective chat room, make it 50 per room if possible as 20 isn't enough.

I agree, if someone PM's you, being able to tell who is PM'ing you before you accept it.

Perhaps with the forums, being able too embed a youtube video too the forums post via the URL link or for that matter on your own profile for people too look at when they check your profile out. I know of another site that allows this, but they use different servers. I find their chat based server better then this 1 in its set up per se, but the people here are cool.

Also when posting a comment on the forums, have where it says "Add Your Post:", being able too choose what colour of font you want too use, whether the text be bold, italic or underlined and what about emoticons in the chat room and forums posts.

(In saying that, you would have to put in place a limit of how many emoticons can be used each comment or line of text in the room, otherwise it can lead too flooding of them).

That is my 2 cents worth.

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xclr8n
10/7/2009 2:55:55 AM
Posts: 13
Member since 9/23/2009 9:19:18 PM
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And I would pay $1.50 too view Pamela's cam :P but if I were to pay over $2.00 is it tax deductible?
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Starfire58
10/7/2009 7:00:00 AM
Posts: 3857
Member since 1/27/2003
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LOL Jump, remember when there was 40 people in chat? When miswhispering the norm and hey we could emote then!

Nice site Mr M. Love the peeps here!

I do have to agree on the PM feature, it is like getting blind sided. Chat could use more docking.

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ManhattanBabe
10/7/2009 2:35:16 PM
Posts: 2901
Member since 2/19/2004
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i love this site, except for the few american bashers that keep coming back under other names. have made ooddles of friends and met quite a few too that i adore and luv. mingles is better then cheers, cause everyone does know your name!!! thanks Mr. Mingles!!!
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Novalee57
10/7/2009 3:23:08 PM
Posts: 92
Member since 12/7/2008 12:15:57 PM
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Having you answer my email letting me know I can Have Novalee back instead of Novalee57 , I have been around since 1999 or 2000 pleaseeeeeeeeeeeee can I can I.
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WebcamMostie
10/7/2009 3:38:06 PM
Posts: 1515
Member since 6/5/2002
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I have nothing but good things to say about Mingles, since this is where I found Captain- (going on our 3rd wedding anniversary- woo hoo!)I pop into chat once in a blue moon, seems pretty cute- I liked the days when everyone's pic was next to what they were saying, though- wouldn't know about webcam, even though that's my name on here (never could get back in to my Mostie profile...screw up with the password!)

You've got a pretty good site here, Mr. M- well...when you emailed me 13 times about my email not being right, but other than that..LOL!

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homeatlast48
10/7/2009 4:14:22 PM
Posts: 222
Member since 10/1/2009 5:57:07 PM
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moo moo moo moo
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jumpnjive
10/7/2009 5:56:08 PM
Posts: 1255
Member since 11/11/1999
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Mr Mingles, any chance of you bringing back the old way of whispering in chat ? The new one is a pain in the A@@. The old one was easy. You just typed in what you wanted to say to someone and clicked on there name and it showed only to them in yellow in the room. I think an old veteran like myself deserves a little typing with ease.
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tck_beachbum
10/7/2009 6:07:15 PM
Posts: 15103
Member since 7/5/2002
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Jump, I felt the same way about whisper... until I used it a few times.

(In fact I hated the whole new chat room at first, but now I love the improvements.)

Type the person's name in <brackets>, right click it and copy it.

Right click and paste it when you want to whisper, it will even correct you if the name is mis-spelled.

I find this new method to be easier, but I do understand your point. wink

Hope this helps.

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jumpnjive
10/7/2009 11:11:23 PM
Posts: 1255
Member since 11/11/1999
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OMG, TCK is Dear Abby, I mean Mr. Mingles,,J/K OMG 11 years in here and I'm still learning hahahahaha
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avaiable4u
10/8/2009 12:59:30 AM
Posts: 1
Member since 1/11/2009 7:29:57 PM
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donernst47@hotmail.com I would like to see a scammers list posted on Mingles, because I see a lot of scammers that I met on other sites before I joinded Mingles. So we should get rid of all these scammers and make the site more injoyable.Would you not agree Don.
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shilo7
10/8/2009 2:19:55 AM
Posts: 128
Member since 10/28/2004
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- likes the video cam in chat

- doesn't like the limited docking space in chat

- wish there was a limit on creations of a forum for a mingler. (let's say no more than 2 forums per week with the exception of cristobalto...he's funny as heck)

- any chance you could have spiritrogue show up more than once a month?

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frogman32
10/8/2009 3:22:15 AM
Posts: 19
Member since 7/21/2009 3:41:43 PM
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I hate the scammers, married peeps, the whispers and drama! Like some of the people and chat rooms!
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adamslt
10/8/2009 7:06:09 AM
Posts: 389
Member since 12/6/2008 4:41:50 PM
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well dang it tck,why didnt you give that whisper advice earlier,before i had to endure the terrible embarassment of "whispers gone bad" and cover my face and leave the room,well...better late than never i guess,thanks

and from looking at the multitude of forum postings dedicated to you,it appears you have an obsessed stalker on here

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spart
10/8/2009 8:47:17 AM
Posts: 2308
Member since 6/24/2001
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I would like it if after a certian time period, say 24 hours, if a forum only contains content from the creater that it be eliminated.
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WebcamMostie
10/8/2009 9:24:08 AM
Posts: 1515
Member since 6/5/2002
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omg shi, that fence behind you in your pic? I swear, when I saw it here in this forum, my first thought was, "omg...she went to Jurassic Park!" hahahaha
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CaptainCorelli
10/8/2009 11:21:00 AM
Posts: 3520
Member since 2/22/2006
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I like Mostie smile hehe, and spanking real life losers like 48 who can only feel good about themselves when they're hiding behind fake personas and bashing people in an internet forum. It's kind of fun kicking him around.
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gtr420
10/8/2009 5:16:18 PM
Posts: 522
Member since 10/6/2001
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"I would like it if after a certian time period, say 24 hours, if a forum only contains content from the creater that it be eliminated." - spart

I 2nd that one.... even if its my own threads because if nobody else replies within the first 24 hours there is no sense in keeping it up.

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gtr420
10/8/2009 5:19:58 PM
Posts: 522
Member since 10/6/2001
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Oh, and more docking space would definitely be good, but I understand that would take more bandwidth and maybe even a faster connection clientside, but if you can make that extra space available for the paying members I am sure they would appreciate that.
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Ron_092
10/11/2009 5:32:15 PM
Posts: 950
Member since 5/17/2005
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